my sister in Christ, i lift up your needs, and for the Lord to intervein in all that concern you.may He give you strength and peace in everything. love Sheila

My Darling Friend In Prayer,

As I read your words I tell you You did not make a mistake! Why because God wants us to do what we can to help one another. You a have provided him with shelter and food and place to lay his head! You apparently have given him love at all costs both fiscally, and emotionally.

Now show him my dear how much you love him and tell him I love you my nephew, I love you so much I don't want you to spoil you life by your smoking this is our home and we don't want it in here anymore! And I don't want to see you become sick and I don't want to see my son become ill because of it either. 'Then tell him So if you love and respect me as much as do you than no more smoking here neither my son nor I can handle it anymore! Grab the paper then hand it to him and say, Now here's the classified there are some local job listings you may qualify for to be a productive child of God's again! Then tell him, I have a problem, I am financially hurting and need some help from you, to keep our home running!

Just a suggestion I hope it is a sound one that may or may not help? I also will go along of course with my prayers prayers for you!

Now remember you can do nothing to change him only God can do that and what I described here is call tough love.

By the way looking at your photo with my old poor eyes. I had to look twice you look somewhat like my niece who was a single working mom for many years! And when her old uncle got sick she was the first to come and take care of this old man a few years ago. God answers all prayers and He will answer yours too!

I don't know if my suggestions are any good for you in your situation but too me they just seem to fit as I read your prayer!

God Bless,
David aka rabbin

thank you so much for praying for me and i pray that god will bless you in every way and help you to be strong when it comes to the problem you have now god bless you and have a wonderful day