Dear God. I Thank reigning_advocate for her prayers. I pray too that she learn how to surrender all her hatred to you and learn to say GOD Bless to the people who offended her. Bless her that she will realize that it is much better to forgive and let things go rather than hold grudges. God Bless you reigning_advocate. Sorry that I can not light candles for you coz I don't have candles too, yet.

What did Jesus do when he was done such a wrong (innocently). He said Father forgive them, for they know not what they do!!! He said it at the moment they were doing Him the wrong, not years later. We cannot be exactly like Jesus but we must come close. The gospel of Mark 11:25 & 26 says (verse 25)--Jesus is speaking--"And when ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have ought against any: that your Father also which is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses."
(verse 26--Jesus speaking again "But if ye do not forgive, neither will your Father which is in heaven forgive your trespasses".
So please soften your heart, remember Jesus suffered more than you have. Unforgiveness will hinder your walk with God.
Heavenly Father I pray in the name of your Son, Jesus, that the Holy Spirit does a work in this life, in this heart, that it be changed into a heart that can be meek, submissive and forgiving. Amen