please help me pray that my partner will learn to realize that she cannot rule over everyones life. she has been acustomed to overpowering her parents and brothers her wholelife and manipulate their decissions. Please let her realize that her current failures in life are but discernment that she doesnt have all the strength to work her way through with other people as well as her goals in life. May she DISCERN that having to achieve something comes with a great deal of sacrifice rather than waiting for things to happen or depend mostly on other people.