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andrea77
andrea77 Fairfield, CT

Reaching the point of breaking, urgent prayer help needed - A Prayer for my lost love. Updated!

Dear Father God. Thank you for your wonderful healing that saved me from the despairing break-up. Only 3 months ago, I was so happy. I quit my job to go back to where my boyfriend Winnie was, planning to get married & he left me. God, you have showed great love to me in the past 3 months. I would have not survived without your love & mercy. I am now getting back on my feet & started a new job, a dream job I always wanted. God please open your heart to Winnie too as you have enlightened mine. He has now lost his job, fall really sick & been suffering from depression. God please save him, please heal him & please work your miracles on him. God, I love him so much, I've always promised myself, I will always be there for him. How much I wish I could hold his hands till the end of the world. And now that I can't (he doesn't want me to) be there for him, God please help him, heal him. I pray for him to come back to me if this is what your wish for us, if not, I pray for him to be happy & never regret. In Jesus almighty name...Amen. Andrea

Sept 7th

As much as I believe in God and want to be patient for his answers to my life, I still feel helpless and lost at times. I’ve just moved from Australia to the US with my new job. Being alone in a new environment is so much harder than I imagined, which just made me miss my boyfriend even more. The only thing makes me happy is to call him at the end of the day, and he picks up the phone at the other end. But of course most of the time he doesn’t pick up the phone or not in a good mood to talk. I will just cry myself into sleep.

Dear brothers & sisters, please pray for him & for us. Pray for God’s miracle working on him for his salvation; the complete heal of his sickness & depression; and finding a job that he likes that way he will regain his self-esteem and maybe he will come back to me.

We loved each other so much; I am still in shock of why he would leave me. The only thing I can do now is to pray. May God bless you all that are so kind to help others!

Andrea

Update - about 1 year ago:

Thank you so much for your wonderful prayers. You are my heroes! With the heavenly blessings, I’ve seen signs of improvement in my relationship with Winnie. We had nice conversations over the phone in the past few days. I asked him to visit me in the US and promised to pay for the trip. He said he would consider, which is a big improvement comparing to not wanting to talk to me a few weeks back.

Dear brothers & sisters, please continue praying for us. Please pray for Winnie to come to the US. Even if it doesn’t bring us back together as a couple, at least I know I’ve tried everything I could.

God promised to direct each step we take in life & I trust God’s heart of love and recognize his sovereign right to decide all things. I am thankful for this great test God placed for me and came to realization how much I’ve grown spiritually & as a person. I would like to ask everyone of you who is experiencing a similar situation, let’s stand still by each other and see the deliverance of the Lord for our relationships, because trust always leads to deliverance.

Update - about 1 year ago:

Love does take 2 people to make happen. I feel strengthless to fight on my own. I called Winnie yesterday; he screamed at me and told me not to call him anymore. I don't even understand why he doesn't want to talk to me, when we were just having nice conversations and laughing on the phone last week. I am so far away from him. I can't even go to see him and try to understand what happened to him. Why is he so angry and cruel to someone who cares for him so dearly? I am on my own in a strange land and fighting for my living, which is hard enough on its own, the only hope held me up in the past months is to get back with Winnie and for him to join me in the US, or just to see him one more time would be the happiest thing for me. I've put down all my pride and doing everything to try to get back with him. But l can't beg someone to love me, no matter how much I love him. I've cried the whole weekend and reaching to the point of breaking. I don't know what more I can do. Please help me and pray for me. Pray for me to stand strong and keep my focus on God. Please pray for my understanding of God's will & prefect plan for me. Please also continue to pray for Winnie, for his salvation and the complete healing of his depression. Maybe its time for me to move on, but I just hope he would realize one day that I've never given up on him and will always love him & pray for him even though he hurt me so much time and time in the past 5 months. I just want to find happiness again in my life, is this really too much to ask? God have mercy on me.

Update - 12 months ago:

I haven't called Winnie for 2 weeks. I forced myself not to. I go to the gym, go to yoga classes to fill up my spare time, but it doesn't make things any easier. I would sit in the office and burst into tears thinking of him and the happy times we spent together. Am I depressed? I feel so wounded and needing for a miracle to restore my life. Please pray for me and save me from my desperation. Please pray for God’s light shinning upon me & my path; knowing I am walking in the will of God, just that my time hasn’t come yet. Thank you so much to all of you who have prayed for me in the past 2 months. You are my strength in this darkness before the 1st sight of the beautiful morning beam.

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Aska
Aska Beograd, Serbia

I know how it feels when you love someone and all he does is yell and tell you not to call, he hates you and similar stuff. But sharpness will fade and it shall be fine one day. I pray this will be so. Amen

mommy2k
mommy2k SC

Dear sister, I hope that the Lord sends you peace, love, and understanding in the days to come. I can almost feel your pain from your words. I do pray that Our Father eases the burdens of your heart soon. Take care, and be blessed--Pat

cju
cju New Jersey, USA

Please Lord heal andrea and lift her depression. Please guide her protect her strengthen her encourage her and comfort her. Please guide her to seek some counseling and support and let her find good people and wise counsel and positive experiences in her new life. Please heal winnie and guide him to seek help. please st jude st anne st anthony st dymphna st michael st gabriel and mother mary pray unceasingly for her and him. God Bless you and heal you soon. May I suggest you look to getting some counseling and perhaps join a support group? Check with your medical insurance and find a good therapist. I think it would be good for you to get your depression treated before it overtakes you. I had that problem myself. also, look online or with local churches or hospitals to find some support groups for grieving, or for those who are separated or dealing with depression or a loved one with depression. It can help sometimes if you can share with others who are going through the same thing you are. take care. God Bless amen

ceci
ceci florida

dear god in heaven please bless this lady with your peace and surround her with your loving arms,you know her needs and you know her heart,show her your ways and that you are in charge and that she has to let go the past and focus in her present and we ask this in the mighty name of jesus christ amen

Harley Rider

dear one, i truly feel your pain! i really do. i lost the one that i waited a lifetime for. she left just months into the marriage for another man. she became cruel and heartless and hurt me and my family so badly.

a part of me died. it affected my life adversely and things became a downward spiral after that.

what i am trying to say is..... that although there was much pain, suffering, heartache and confusion. it felt like the pain would never subside....

bottom line - i cried out night and day for god to bring me thru it! it seemed like he was totally ignoring my prayers. it hurt so badly.

but you know what? god was there all the time. he did bring me thru it and i know that he will carry you too and bring you thru whatever you are experiencing - no matter how it seems.

god has brought my family and me thru so much. i owe my life to him many times over. i can't thank the lord enough!

thank you father god for hearing our prayers, and for your mercy, grace, forgiveness and unconditional love! thank you for jesus paying our sin debt and sacrificing his life on the cross for our sins.

we ask in jesus precious, holy name. AMEN.

god bless you!

Lyntje

Dear Andrea,

there is so many similarities between what you and I have gone through.I have also asked myself these past two months how can someone you love so much just turn away from you.
And yes, me and my ex bf also live on two different continents.Me and him havent spoken in almost two weeks now on the telephone, same as you, I tried desperatelly to keep that contact.I have deleted my earlier prayer requests, or you could have read them.I have this theory why it hurts so much letting go, it is when you loved someone with all your heart and soul, that it hurts like this.All I can offer you up to in prayer is please please be strong girl, and do you know what?Our Lord really does care and love us so very much.My prayer for you is that he makes you feel a better each day, help you see and feel the little things in life again that contains so much beauty, even if its just a smile from a child, or a beautifull sunset.Hold onto those things my dear, see Gods glory in them, dont give up please.
God bless you, I mean it from my heart.
Lyntje

mercedes

lord give this woman a mirical lord i know what shes going thruw lord touch her and heal her heart lord bless her give her peace love joy happieness and strength lord give her what her heart desires hear her cry take away all hurt and pain help her amen

stephanielovesmick

Heavenly Father,
in my present need,
help me to believe
that you are aware of my anxiety
and will do what is best for me.
Give me the strength to trust you
and put the present and future in your hands.
Grant this through Christ, our Lord. Amen.

wizelady
wizelady Springfield Ma

JESUS IS LORD, JESUS IS LORD JUST REMEMBER, JESUS IS THE LORD OVER ALL TIME SPENT TIME IN THE WORD OF GOD....PSALM IS A GREAT PLACE TO START. YOUR STRENGTH COMES FROM GOD. GOD HEAL HER BROKEN HEART IN THE NAME OF JESUS.AMEN

miapia
miapia Milwaukee, WI

Circle me, Lord.
Keep protection near
And danger afar.
Circle me, Lord
Keep hope within.
Keep doubt without.
Circle me, Lord.
Keep light near
And darkness afar.
Circle me, Lord.
Keep peace within.
Keep evil out.

david adam

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Tamara25
Tamara25 Victorville, CA

Heavenly Father, please minister to Andrea in that she knows that YOU are all she needs in this time of loneliness. Allow her to feel your presence which will in return, diminish the desire to be with this person whom she has feelings for. Bless her with companionship, sweet friendships and confidence in who she is in YOU. Amen and Amen. <><

alyssamarie741

dear god i just ask that you upt the holy ghost inside both andrea and winnie and open their eyes to the light in that they see that doubt and unbelief is only from the devil and only good can come from you lord, i ask that you be with them through their time of strife and make them see that being positive results in positive things, i ask that you bless andrea and winnie, my brother and sister and plant andreas steps firm in where shes going in life whether it be with winnie or not, i also pray that you show winnie jesus' love is shining through andrea to him and that he accepts and is saved. in jesus mighty name amen.

cju
cju New Jersey, USA

Please heal Andrea and grant her all she so needs right now to get through this. Please heal Winnie of his depression and please let your will be done. God Bless you both amen

sandkassal1
sandkassal1 CALIFORNIA

If you love him set him free. Gods love for you is with you always and everywhere. you are never ever alone, and with the power of prayer and this site we are here for you. Stay strong it will get easier in time I know. Prayers and Angels with you. Denise

andrea77 - about 1 year ago: Thank you so much for your continued prayers for me. May God bless you with love, peace & mercy today and always.
jillgabriela
jillgabriela Durban South Africa

I pray you find the strength to get through this situation. learn your lessons and do not stop having faith. May the Lord hold you close during this very hard time. Remember The Lord wants only the best for you. I pray for your happiness

andrea77 - about 1 year ago: Thank you so much for your continued prayers for me. May God bless you with love, peace & mercy today and always.