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KATDAV79
KATDAV79 Michigan USA

Please pray for us time is running out and most URGENTLY for my husband.

I'm once again asking for prayer. I know so many have far greater needs. 2 weeks from today my 28 year marriage is scheduled to be over. Please pray that this divorce is stopped or at least postponed for now while God works on us and on our restoration. I love my husband so much it gets harder each day that draws closer to the date. The pain and sadness in my heart is crushing. I know God wants me to be happy and not be afraid and to trust in him. And I do with all my heart I know he will not go back on his word" THEREFORE I SAY UNTO YOU, WHAT THINGS SO EVER YE DESIRE, WHEN YE PRAY, BELIEVE THAT YE RECEIVE THEM, AND YE SHALL HAVE THEM. Mark 12:24 and to FEAR NOT HE IS WITH ME and THAT HIS WORD DOES NOT COME BACK VOID. I do believe but I still am terrified of losing the husband that God gave me the heart to love until my death and beyond. Please pray for my husband David because I'm even more afraid of him being lost further. He is so lost and since he left his life keeps getting worse. Yet he hasn't figured out why. As important as our marriage is to me( I will always be his wife) his salvation is so much more important. He is taking more and more harmful risks, losing more friends. Please pray that he hears Gods words. Pray that the ow leave his life. That all outsiders interfering in our marriage be stilled. Pray that he stops the sins the dangers. Please pray for his salvation. Please pray that we both do the needed changes in us. Please pray that our family is restored our son be happy again. That the extended family forgive him. please pray for him pray for us. Pray that no man ( or court of mortal law) put us asunder. Please pray that his heart and his mind see that "he was better off then than now" and he comes back to us. And please pray for strength for me it's getting harder by day to cope. Please pray that my faith multiplies 100 fold and I see clearly what GOD ASKS OF ME. I'm sorry this was so long.
God bless you all and you have my prayers for whatever your needs.
Kathy

Update - 8 months ago:

Thank you for all the prayers. I'm am trusting Gods word that one week from today will not see the end of my marriage. That God will work miracles David will get a new heart and spirit. I pray that he will turn from the ow that he will see it WAS BETTER THEN THAN NOW. THAT HE WILL RETURN TO HIS WIFE. That God will let no one put us asunder. But at the same time I am filled with terror as each hour gets closer.I am drowning in overwhelming sadness. Please pray for God to lift us both up and bring us to him as one. To live our lives married for a lifetime as he intended. I do not want to live one day not being married to David but I know in God's eyes we will be married . The court of law means nothing it's Gods law that speaks the truth. Please pray for a miracle.

Update - 8 months ago:

I just wanted you all to know I found a church to attend Praise God. I went today it was a 2 mile walk there and back but God got me there bad knee and leg and all. While I was there I reaffirmed my life to Christ I feel at peace that God will take full control of David and our marriage while I work on ME. Please continue to pray for David for our marriage and our family. Thank you and God Bless you all.

Update - 8 months ago:

I just got off the phone with David he brought up tomorrow. I said yeah it was a tentitive date. I never received anything with any times or anything and ever if there was a time I wouldn't go. He said he did it's at 1:30 and hes going to be there. This cannot be happening I pray that if it is to go through tomorrow I never wake up tomorrow. Please pray something changes it it doesn't happen please.

Update - 8 months ago:

I just talked to my lawyer it's over. There is nothing anyone can say or do that will take away this pain. I know God will answer all of your prayers. Thank you all. But for now I just need to be left alone

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shake22
shake22 Cincinnati , Ohio

Father I ask that with each passing day that my sister gets stronger and that the pain lessens for her. Give her renewed courage and strength. and I pray that oneday she and her husband will find there way back to each other. Amen

KATDAV79 - 8 months ago: GOD BLESS YOU.
Jenny_Collins

DEAR LORD JESUS, I ASK, PRAY AND BEG THAT YOU HOLD KATDAV IN YOUR ARMS RIGHT NOW, LET HER KNOW IT WILL BE OK. LORD, I PRAY THAT YOU ERASE ALL THE PAIN SHE IS FEELING INSIDE, LORD I ASK THAT YOU HEAL HER HEART, HEAL HER SPIRIT. LORD, YOUR CHILD IS DEVESTED AND IN DIAR NEED OF YOUR LOVE AND SUPPORT! LORD LET HER FEEL OUR WARMTH, LORD LET HER HEAR OUR CRIES, FOR HER LOSS. LORD, PLEASE BRING SOME FORM OF PEACE. WE ASK THESE TINGS OF YOU BECAUSE THIS WOMAN TRUELY NEEDS YOU AND ALL OF US NOW. SHE STAYED STRONG, AND DID'NT WANT HER MARRIGE TO END LORD, I PRAY SHE FINDS SOME COMFORT. LORD YOU KNOW WHAT SHE NEEDS, I CAN'T EVEN PUT INTO WORDS THE WAY I FEEL, BUT I KNOW YOU FEEL IT AND WE KNOW SHE NEEDS IT. PLEASE BE WITH HER! AMEN

KATDAV79 - 8 months ago: GOD BLESS YOU.
juliarm
juliarm uk

Thank you for your prayers for Chloe!! I pray Father that this lovely lady will be kept safe and comforted in your arms. You know what you have in store for her and it is only for good. Please bless her husband with wisdom, conscience and clarity of mind to do what is right. Amen

KATDAV79 - 8 months ago: GOD BLESS YOU.
dkm
dkm NE

I pray that David's heart be open, and the Lord puts his blessing in there and the real truth be seen. I feel for you my sister I have been there and now I'm in a bigger mess with authorities and an elderly lady I took care of, and believe I would trade you places. I feel to I don't want to wake up. I have been told by my attorney to find another job. then I could have jail time if things don't get better............How when I thought I was doing things for her................Oh, my Father in Heaven,,,,,,,,,,why do we go through such trials..............Praying for changes for us both.

KATDAV79 - 8 months ago: GOD BLESS YOU.
cju
cju New Jersey, USA

Lord Jesus Please please hear our prayers for Kathy - She needs you so much Lord. I ask for you to please grant her all she so needs at this time. I ask you to please please move in David's heart and stop this. I ask you to please bless her and her son and let them be okay. Please bless her with strength courage guidance comfort peace love and lots of support. I ask you to please not let what the enemy has planned to prosper. I ask you to move in david's heart and to please let him be respectful, fair, kind and loving. I ask you to please not let this infidelity prosper. She needs you so much Lord and I ask you to please please heal her and let this marriage survive. I ask you to please work a miracle here. st jude st anne st anthony st rita and st michael and mother mary please pray for them. God Bless you and heal your marriage. I am praying for you. amen

KATDAV79 - 8 months ago: GOD BLESS YOU.
christirice
christirice Milan Michigan

I pray for you and feel your pain as I am going through this too. Trust in the Lord and have faith. God Bless You both

KATDAV79 - 8 months ago: GOD BLESS YOU.
mommyangelmommy
mommyangelmommy camb, oh

This was all most like reading my own story. I don't believe in divorce, that's an easy way out. I also believe that god wouldn't let me fall this deeply in love with this man if I wasn't suppose to be with him. Kathy, I've said this before. I believe prayers are most powerful in numbers. I'm going to add you to my daily prayers. God bless you. Dear lord, please hear this prayer. I have learned from you and in her book that divorce is not the answer.Please save this man as well as mine from the path they are on. I believe lord that there is still hope when there is you and love. In Jesus' name I pray, Amen

KATDAV79 - 8 months ago: GOD BLESS YOU.
scott724k
scott724k England

I read this from the other side of divorce and I know what U are going through, I felt this when my husband and I separated, that was in 1993 and we divorced in 1999, although I knew in my heart of hearts the marriage was wrong from the start and I tried so hard. God taught me a lot about marriage! Now I look back and thank God he knew what was right. I know I would not want to be in an unhappy christian marriage, as it is wrong to live a lie, that is what God taught me. U are feeling the grief right now. I was left with 4 small children and on crutches recovering from a car crash, that my ex husband caused. I would be crying and pleading with God and he got me through but my marriage was not restored and God knows that was the right way. I feel God is in control of this situation, please trust him. He wants your happiness and the very best for you, he wanted me to share that with U God Bless and keep U safe. You are in my prayers. Amen

KATDAV79 - 8 months ago: GOD BLESS YOU.
LuvMyKidz
LuvMyKidz Detroit, MI

I am so glad that you found a church and that you were so determined to get there that you walked there with your pain. God will bless you. Don't give up on David. Also as hard as it may be you should forgive him and the OW and pray for them. Unforgiveness is one of the hardest things I have had to overcome but we have to. How do we pray for forgiveness from our father if we can't forgive. I let things really turn into a mess in my life by holding unforgiveness. I will pray for you to stay strong and I will also pray for David and the OW to turn from their ways of wrong doing and turn their eyes toward Jesus. Pray out loud and read scriptures with your son as well because he is hurting now too. You need each other now. If he sees you staying strong and finding your help in God and forgiving his father it will make your homecoming so sweet when you are all reunited as a family. I went through the same thing in 1997. My husband did drugs, abused me and cheated on me with other women. I did not turn to God for help. I thought I could do it all by myself. It has taken me this many years to finally put my pride and stubborness aside and fall to my knees. My marriage is over. I believe yours doesn't have to be. God is wonderful. God Bless You and Your family. Keep us updated. I am looking forward to the miracles in your future.

KATDAV79 - 8 months ago: GOD BLESS YOU. I guess I've never written it on here I have forgiven David for everything he has done. My family is so incredibly mad at me because I cannot get mad at David no matter what he does. I cannot. Two nights ago he had a bad night for some reason I think something to do with her he decided to take it out on me. He has never in 28 years layed a hand on me or called me names. But he knows how to hurt me he threatens to stop talking to me or seeing me so he used that. Instead of blowing up I told him " I love you and I'm sorry" I hadn't done or said anything but the person I cannot forgive is myself. I know what my part in all this was and I hate myself for it. One thing I need to work on is my self hatred. As for the ow I do pray several times a day for her and his family who had a huge part in our lives being shattered, I have asked God to help me forgive them. Our son I am getting him involved in the prayers very much so. And I probably shouldn't but I always tell him blame me not your dad. He's mentally handicapped so explaining stuff to him is hard but Thank God he has no idea what the other woman or adultery means or divorce for that matter. I never thought I would see his condition as a blessing but bless his innocent heart here it is. But yes he is hurting very much without his dad. He adores him as do I.
akagrandma
akagrandma Indy

Dear Heavenly Father, We ask you be with this couple and allow David's heart to know the love of Jesus Christ our Savior.
Amen

KATDAV79 - 8 months ago: GOD BLESS YOU.
cju
cju New Jersey, USA

Lord Jesus I stand in agreement with her prayers and I ask you to grant her comfort and all she needs to get through this. I ask you to please move in David's heart and please stop this divorce and heal this family. St Jude St Anne St anthony and st rita and mother mary please pray for her and David also. God Bless amen

KATDAV79 - 8 months ago: GOD BLESS YOU.
Monique C.
Monique C. Barbados, W.I.

My sister I can only imagine how you feel, you know my situation and you have prayed for me but one thing I realised that moved God to action was when I decided that I was not giving up, for the simple fact that He did not create me to loose and my attitude at first was like it's over, my family is destroyed but not anymore. Also I changed the things I was saying to myself and what I was verbalizing. It is fear and doubt that comes from the things that we see which causes us to think that our prayers are not working but it is that doubt that will cause our prayers to fail. The devil will put all sorts of thoughts in your head but rebuke those thoughts when they come in, he says those things only to get you to give up and if you give up then all is Lost. Dont let the devil steal what the Lord has blessed you with. We have to fight and fight to win. Speak to the devil and speak to your situation and obey God if God says to leave it alone leave it alone, if he says dont say this or dont do that dont do it. If he says to fast then fast. When Jesus spoke about anything He referred to God's word and He said "it is written" so He believed whatever God said in his word. Say to the devil, it is written - we are more than conquerors through Christ, it is written whatever we ask for in prayer believing that we receive it then it will be ours. God's word is the last word. The devil will always loose because it is not our fight it is God's fight. Keep on trusting and I pray that David will turn around right now in the Mighty name of Jesus. Cover his mind Lord and take the blinders off of him show him that divorce is not the answer. To the honour and glory of your name. As we speak those things that are not as though they are. We believe it is finished. Amen

KATDAV79 - 8 months ago: GOD BLESS YOU.
Blueseptember
Blueseptember Kentucky

Kathy, fear and sadness are not from God. It is normal to have these feelings, but don't let your feelings make you sin, this gives Satan a foothold. You are not fighting your husband, you are fighting Satan. God gives us weapons to work with, His word and prayer. You can stand firm in the face of the enemy and through prayer release the power of the Holy Spirit, you have to stand in the gap between your husband and God and pray for him believing, nothing waivering.

Father I come to you now thankful for Kathy and that she seeks you and loves you and her husband. Show her that you are in control and she only needs to pray and stand firm. Send the power of your Holy Spirit to her husban's heart, convict him and give him a desire for the things of God. Reconcile him to you Lord and in doing so reconcile him to his wife. We know that you are fighting this battle in the supernatural. Take the blinders off her husband's eyes. Do not let this divorce be final. Come against Satan and his lies and his attempts to destroy the Holy union of marriage that symbolizes our relationship with you. The devil is coming against the very foundations you have laid for family and love, I pray that you not let him prevail. we know that Satan is already a defeated foe, cast down at the Cross. by the blood of Jesus break every stronghold off of this marriage, this wife and her husband. I thank you and I praise you my Holy God, so righteous and perfect and loving, in Jesus name, Amen.

KATDAV79 - 8 months ago: GOD BLESS YOU.
deeney
deeney South Shore, KY

I want to thank you for your prayers for my son. I pray the Lord will be with you & to take the fear from you. God has a plan & maybe it is not revealed yet. God bless this woman & guide her to do Your will. Be with her husband & open his eyes so he can see clearly. Please Lord let them both listen to You. Its in Jesus name I pray. Amen

KATDAV79 - 8 months ago: GOD BLESS YOU.
dsantomunoz

May Jesus hold you in His arms and give you peace. Jesus loves you. WHenever you feel down or start having bad thoughts TRUST IN THE LORD. Say, Jesus I will leave my husband and this matter in your hands,everytime you feel afraid or start thinking too much. God knows the outcome, May his will be done.

KATDAV79 - 8 months ago: GOD BLESS YOU.