:( I knew today was the date the court had set for the final date but having heard nothing from my lawyer I have been praying it not happen. David called me yesterday he mentioned it and assumed I would be there which I assured him I would not and besides I was not given any papers any time nothing.
He informed me he had and that he was told he has to be there at 1:30. He called last night to let me knows its going to be an all afternoon thing and they are seeking to lower support.
A prayer friend of mine called me at 1Am. She is going to call me today at 1PM est from the chapel where she works so that we can pray together for a miracle before the proceeding starts.
I would appreciate it if as many of you as possible could also pray for us at that time. I guess I am asking for my own personal prayer vigil. Thank you all so much. I am utterly devastated right now.
God Bless
Love
Kathy
I just talked to my lawyer it's over. There is nothing anyone can say or do that will take away this pain. I know God will answer all of your prayers. Thank you all. But for now I just need to be left alone.
The court today granted my husband his divorce. I say my husband because I will never stop being his wife. I will never remove my wedding band nor his that I wear on a chain with a cross. God according to his Holy book did not grant the divorce. We do not meet the requirements for a divorce in Gods eyes. I do not yet know the reason God decided to turn his back on what my heart was crying out for. Maybe I truly am not worthy but whatever the reason my biggest fear right now is that God will not listen to me in my prayers for David's salvation. And that he will be lost. Please I ask that your prayers be for him. He needs and deserves them so much more than I. And please pray our son does not suffer with fewer visits and calls. God Bless you all.
Thank you all for the prayers. They are indeed helping. I was praying for a fellow stander today as she asked for a sign as I did I poured my heart out to God asking for myself a sign. I had to go to town earlier I was given 4 very special very clear signs. This morning before 1 David called me we had a very nice talk I was able to get all of my feelings out. There was no anger only understanding compassion and respect from him. I have no doubt the love is still there. There is such sadness in his voice since Wednesday and he has been drinking that night and last. Please continue to pray for him and for our restoration. Our marriage will be born again but it will be stronger. And although a piece of papers declares us unmarried the bond between us is there that will never be put asunder. God Bless you all.
My spirits were lifted a bit today. I have said before that all my family have turned against David. My step mom called today ( I love her like a mom) she let me know that while she is in church tomorrow she will be asking for prayers not only for David but also for the restoration of our marriage. And that my brother at the church he attends will be doing the same and to never let anyone tell me it is wrong to wait for David to come home and let no one tell me to stop loving him that they stand behind not only me but our restoration. And in their opinions if David did not strongly feel something for me he would not be calling me all the time. I say Thank you Lord for FINALLY letting someone in my family step forward with some encouragement.
I was thinking today in church ' IF YOU BELIEVE IT YOU WILL ACHIEVE IT" I told my minister on the way out to PLAN on "REMARRYING my husband and I in that very church. How is that for FAITH my brothers and sisters in prayer? God bless you all.
The Lord Jesus Christ rebuke, break and bind you Satan, and all of your demons and all of your hosts, from the heart and emotions of David, and the Lord Jesus Christ loose a new heart of flesh into David, loose a heart full of righteousness in Christ into David and loose an agape love for me Kathy, his one flesh helpmate into David's heart. Father, place me Kathy like a seal upon David's heart, like a seal upon his arm, David's love for me Kathy is stronger then death, its jealousy as unyielding as the grave, it burns like a blazing fire, like a mighty flame, many waters cannot quench David's love for me Kathy, rivers cannot wash it away, if David were to give all the wealth of his house for his love for me, Kathy, his one flesh helpmate, it would be utterly scorned. It is written that a husband David loves his wife Kathy as Christ loves the church, as if his own body, sacrificing himself for her, and the Lord Jesus Christ loose a love sickness for the Lord into David's heart, let David pant like a deer after the water for his Lord Jesus Christ. The Lord Jesus Christ rebuke, break and bind the spirit of adultery from David, and the Lord Jesus Christ loose the spirit of faithfulness and fidelity into David. Lord let David's love for me once again burn deep deep in his heart let him want us to be together forever. Amen
I PRAY THAT AL L YOUR DESIRES ,EMOTIONS AND ANYTHING ELSE IN LIFE WHICH WILL BRING YOU HAPPINESS SHALL BE ,MY FIRST LOVE WAS ALSO NAMED DAVID AND ALTHOUGH WE STILL LOVE EACH OTHER WE AREN'T TOGETHER AND ALTHOUGH EVERYONE SAYS WE SHOULD BE IT HASN'T HAPPENED BUT I THINK IT'S BECAUSE GOD WANTS ME TO FIND ME,GROW AND THE SAME WITH HIM SO THEN MAYBE WE CAN CONTINUE TO GROW TOGETHER AND BE STRONG FOR OURSELVES AND EACH OTHER..THANK YOU FOR PRAYING FOR ME AND PLEASE CONTINUE TO PRAY AS MY PRAYERS HAVE NOT YET BEEN ANSWERED BUT I BELIEVE YOURS WILL AND HAS ALREADY BEGUN ..,JUST LOOK OUTSIDE YOURSELF AS IF YOU WERE ADVISING A FRIEND OR SISTER AND YOU WILL SEE THE ANSWER ...IN PRAYER I ASK FOR YOU,AMEN..
Lord I ask that you would work a great work in this situation. Lord I know You know the pain this dear sister is in. Please send her encouragement, strength and peace in this great trial in her life. Please work a miracle in David's and her life. Please draw her close to you and may she know Your love for her and feel You in her life.
Sister I know this is painful to be the one who does not want our lives and marriages torn apart. I don't have any answers but You are in my thoughts and prayers. Remember though that to Jesus you are a wonderful daughter who He was even willing to die for. So even when we feel no one else cares, He does.
fathre god i pray for complete heal;ing and restoration of this relationshsip in jessu name i pray amen thank you fathre we receive it amen jesus amen
I am sorry Kat, I feel your pain. Do not grieve, God surely has something better destined for you. Someone who is your Mr.Right and who will make David pale, and erase him like he never was there. I have no candles to give you, but i shall light one right here.
Blessed be.
Kat,
Thank you so much for the prayers you have given me for my situation. I have been reading all of your prayer requests over the past hour or so. I will ask my friends who have been praying for me to pray for you, as well. I do believe in miracles, and I believe that being in "constant prayer" is the only thing that can work when miracles are needed.
I agree with you that it is NOT wrong to wait for your husband to come home, and it is NOT wrong to pray that your marriage will be restored. It is shameful that our society has taught us to just throw away a marriage when it becomes difficult and that anyone who doesn't want to throw that marriage away is "clinging to false hope" and "needs to move on." That is utter tripe, and wholly against the instructions God gave us. I would refer anyone who tells you that you should move on and give up to read what the Bible says about marriage.
Kat, I have faith that the fissures in your marriage will be healed, and that with God's help your husband will be able to work through whatever is going on that made him feel like he had to leave. I believe as you do that you will remarry your husband in your church!
Stay strong. My prayers are with you!
- Your sister in Christ
Praise the Lord for your amazing faith in such a difficult time. God, I know you have and will ALWAYS provide a means of escape into an avenue of planned prosperity for all your beloved children, no matter how difficult the journey may seem to be at the beginning. This morning at Church, the Pastor taught "Potter's Clay" from Jeremiah 18:1-11. "I am a potter shaping evil against you and devising a plan against you." When God is working on your life, as the Potter's working on the clay. He sometimes has to pluck up and break it down in order to restore it and to make it better. So for every trail in life, why wouldn't we look at it as a blessing with Mask? You have to trust your father in Heaven, he promised you prosperity in every aspect of your live. So would he grant you his promise.
Father in Heaven. We thank you for your love and mercy. Father, please review your prefect plan for Kathy and his husband, please restore this marriage and please lead them into your planned prosperity. Father please comform Kathy and her husband when you are working on restoring their lives. Please give them strength and love in abundance. In Jesus name I pray. Amen
Thank you for praying for me. Your encouragement means a lot to me. Thank you for being a blessing for others that are in need.
lord i ask that you send healing to this relationship and let it bloom with your beauty.amen
I unfortunately know how you feel when it comes to Family. Not one of my Family is on My/our side, They have all condemned her to Hell. My own dad who is a believer sent me an email ultimatum a fews days ago. That if I don't file for divorce from her he will not ever help me again. And that that is his last try. My Mom just left an email telling me she is worthless for what she is doing to me and I can do better, and my own brother and his wife even say that. My Born again Sister was over and said the best thing I can do to teach her a lesson was to move on and find someone else. It hurts so much. Because of her leaving I have been brought to be closer to my family, but they are pushing me back away. None of them get my Love for her. My Love for my family here. I mean God is the one teaching us lessons. Is he Not? But My whole Family and not ONE will stand with me. I asked them what happens when she comes home. Not if, but when!. Will you treat her like dirt or pretend you never said these things?
I am praying for your marraige still. Just don't give up again. That is what Satan wanted and you almost gave him that victory. We have to stand by our Loves and spouses. If not then who will. I pray to our Lord God to strengthen this women Today. On your Day of Glory. On this Glorious Day. I pray for her Prodigal to realize that he just made a Huge mistake and want to correct it. That he sees that even now she has not left his side, or their marraige. Amen
Lord I stand in agreement for restoration in the name of Jesus;
"Ah Lord GOD! Behold, You have made the heavens and the earth by Your great power and by Your outstretched arm! Nothing is too difficult for You, who shows lovingkindness to thousands... O great and mighty God. The LORD of hosts is His name!
Jeremiah 32:17,18 NASB
I am praying for you my friend, God bless you and Peace be with you always. Deep breaths, you are strong, and God is with you. I stand in agreement with Michael Anthony, nothing is over.........Big Hugs, Diane
Thank You For Your Prayer!!!!Dear Hevenly Father I pray for
Kathy I pray for peace for her Lord I pray for her husband that he will see what he should do And that with you things will be better.Be with her Lord she needs you know Her heart I pray that you will heal her heart take all the pain away Lord I have faith in you Lord Take all the hurt away right now lord I pray the holly spirt will just flow threw you and take all the bad fellings away.I pray your mind is released from this that you can think of other things then this that you will not worry any more and just let it be in Gods hands and know evrything will be just fine Kathy Every thing will be all right when we give it to Jesus I pray she sleeps the entire night in full peace only good thoughts go threw her head they she does not cry anymore all the presure is relased from her mind in the name fo Jesus Christ Amen
Still standing in prayer...will not stop...nothing is over until He says so.
God Bless you Kathy. I am so glad you could talk to David. I continue to stand in agreement with her prayers for the reconciliation with David and I lift them both up to you Lord to bless and heal them. I ask you to comfort and strengthen and guide this family and move in their hearts to do what you need each to do in order to come together again. Please bless Kathy and her son with all they need to get through this and I ask you to please deliver her from these trials. Thank you Lord for the strength and faith and comfort you are giving her now. st jude st anne st anthony st rita st michael and mother mary thank you for your prayers and please continue praying for them. thank you Kathy for praying for young Ty and her boyfriend. Please keep them in your prayers. God Bless you and your family amen
KATDAV, I am glad to hear you have no anger in your heart for Divid anymore. I do not believe God turns his back on anyone, and there is no such thing as unanswered prayers, if you believe it is unanswered, that is the answer. David may have issues to deal with, i'm not sure of the reason, but I do pray that the two of you caould restore your marrige, now taht it's finall maybe he'll realize he made a mistake!
Lord I ask taht you continue to watch over this woman and this man,Lord I pray that they have restoration in their marrige, Lord I ask that your will be done. Amen
Lord I pray in a very special way for my dear sis and her husband that u would restore their marriage and build their house with ur love as ur word says"Love does no harm to a neighbour;therefore love is the fulfillment of the law -Rom:13:10 Lord pls speak to her husband and enable him to understand his wife's feelings for him because we believe that u r the God who restores love in Jesus mighty name I pray-Amen
Sis,
Our God is a wonderworking God,he will surely hears our cry.I will pray for u daily in my personel prayers,love u -padma