Dated Frank 1 year, Hoped he'd have compassion after he was abusive to me,but never had remorse and made me out to be the bad person. He had a smirk on his face while he said mean things to me. He told me to forget things but never showed any remorse.I hoped he would get better. He acted distant after he abused me. He asked me if I'd like him to buy a motorcycle He said it's a girl magnet." I told him "No unless he wants to" I invited him to go with me places I was invited to but he either made it miserable or gave me a hard time and end up not going. A friend told me she saw him with another girl on his Bike and found out he had been seeing this girl 2 or 3 mths. It was his new girlfriend while with me. He always accused me of cheating on him and called me all kinds of names. None of this was true. I wanted things to work with him. He chased me. It was hard for me to bother with him when he was mean. My heart hurts more than ever, finding out while he abused and accused me he had a new girlfriend whiile with me. I think about him 24-7 ever since I heard of him seeing someone else while still seeing me. The pain of him cheating hurts worst than the abuse he put me thru. He gave me extravagant gifts while with him & always saying he wants to marry me (he gave me a very expensive engagement ring, but in a angry way..I gave it back a week later. That was in the beginning of the relationship.I feel terribly sick and feel as though I'll never get thru this. My heart and my head are always on him. MY PRAYER: He would be CONVICTED of the way he has been towards me, have REMORSE,and beTRUTHFUL with me about everything. IF he's not whom God has for me I ask that EVERY THOUGHT FEELING of him would be REMOVED from my HEART and MIND. IF HE IS, then I pray for a MIRACLE in him to be HONEST and TRUE.
my heart hurts for you. i have been cheated on in almost every relationship. it stinks. its not right, but god brought me thru it.. he will do the same for you.
just a suggestion... find a good christian counselor, and work on the pain, issues, etc.. or the 'baggage' will follow from one relationship to the next.
been there, done that and know so many who have - but didn't deal with it, and work thru it and it gets much worse.
god bless you. let us know how you are doing.
I LOST THE PRAYER GRAND BABY HIT SOMETHING.
ANY WAY NO LOVE IN ABUSE CHEATING. WHEN A MAN ACCUSES YOU, HE'S CHEATING. MINE DID THE SAME THING1ST HUSBAND. MIND GAME, GIRL ROLE REVERSAL. AS IT'S SAID NOW- A- DAYS FLIP THE SCRIPT ,ON YOU .
SEEK GOD FOR A GODLY MATE PRO.10:22 HIS GIFTS ADDETH NO SORRW AMEN. PRAY BREAK GENERATIONAL CURSE OF ABUSE OFF YOUR FAMILY MEN AND WOMEN.
ALL THE SIGNS ARE THERE FRANK DON'T LOVE YOU!!!
HE DON'T KNOW HOW TO LOVE ,NOR RESPECT WOMEN THE GIRLFRIEND WILL BE NEXT VICTIM AMEN. HE NEEDS DELIVERANCE..PLEASE ASKING YOU TO MARRY IN A ANGRY WAY, WAKE UP !!!! IT GETS WORSE!! OF COURSE THERE'S NO REMORSE, HE NOT SORRY, HE'LL KEEP ON
BECAUSE YOU ACCEPT IT . BE LIKE LOT IN THE BIBLE WALK AWAY DON'T LOOK BACK!! YOU STAY/MARRY FRANK YOU WILL BE PILLAR OF SALT. HOW CAN FRANK BE HONEST AND TRUE IS HE SAVED? DELIVERED?SPIRIT-FILLED? YOU DECEIVE YOURSELF SISTER.YOU PLAYING WITH SATAN. FAST ,PRAY READ EPH6:10-18 I HAVE WRITTENYOU BEFORE. GIVE GOD QUALITY TIME 1 HOUR
OF PRAYER DAILY, INTERCEDING FOR OTHERS, 1 HOUR OF PRAISE AND WORSHIP, LAY OUT BEFORE THE LORD.
I PRAY LORD GIVE RP WISDOM KNOWLEDGE AND STRENGTH LOVE HERSELF TO DEMAND RESPECT FROM FRANK. NOT TO ALLOW HERSELF TO BE MISTREATED,ABUSED.FILL VOIDS IN HER LORD. FILL HER WITH THE HOLY SPIRIT. GIVE HER PEACE AT THE JOB AND FAVOR.PEACE AT HOME. LINE UP YOUR LIFE WITH THE WORD OF GOD RHONDA (NO SHACKING) GOD TRYING TO TALK TO YOU.GET IN A PLACE WHERE YOU CAN HEAR HIM AND BE OBEDIENT TO THE LORD HALLELUJAH.I PRESENT TO YOU THE TRUTH , THE WORD OF GOD.SEE A MAN OF GOD LOVES HIS MATE AS HE LOVES THE LORD AMEN READ 2 CORN.6:14.
SET YOUR SELF FREE LET GO AND LET GOD DIRECT YOUR PATH/LIFE AMEN. GOD BLESS YOU ABUNDANTLY IN JESUS NAME. I AWAIT YOUR PRAISE REPORT.SISTER.
LOVE YOU IN CHRIST.
My loving father, we are remembering sister Rhonda in our prayers daily.She is your daughter. Remove all her heartaches. Give your comfort to her. You be her lover. Let your will be done in her life. Let her be cheerful. Remove all her tears. She is coming to you. You never forsske those who called you. Make her life happy and blessed. In the name of Jesus we asking you Lord
Dear rp44,
I know that you are in pain, but things will improve. I pray the Lord to comfort you and give you a renewed strength in your daily life. You are a child of God and deserve a very caring person, so I pray for God's guidance for a new friendship.
I am sending you this special prayer, so that when you are feeling down please read this it may help.
HAIL MARY: GENTLE WOMAN
Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with you.
Blessed are you among women,
and blest is the fruit of your womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of death.
Amen.
Gentle woman, quiet light
Morning star, so strong and bright,
gentle Mother, peaceful dove,
teach us wisdom; teach us love.
You were chosen by the Father;
You were chosen for the Son.
You were chosen from all women
and for women, shining one.
Blessed are you among women,
blest in turn, all women, too.
Blessed they with peaceful spirits.
Blessed they with gentle hearts.
May our Blessed Mother surround you and be every by your side for strength daily. We pray in Jesus name. Amen.
Dear lady it is normal to feel the way you do about Frank since you have been in a relationship with him and its not easy to forget someone you loved. Healing takes time but you will overcome Him. Remember all things happen for good for those who love the Lord event the difficult things. Rejoyce in the Lord for He has good plans for you, plans to prosper you and not to destroy you, plans to give you a hope and a future. Forgive Frank and let go and let God take control and for sure he will bring along a man who deserves you 100%.
Dear Sister in Christ I pray God will order you steps to a Bible Believing,Holy Spirit fill Church where you can focus on Jesus Our Lord and Savior. Jesus never went around abusing any one and you wonderful lady deserve Gods very best for you. Father God in heaven you are, our maker and you have the prefect mate for each & everyone of us. Lord i pray that the peace of God surround her & encamp all around.Lord teach her to forgive herself and to forgive other.Teach her that she is very precious in your sight & tell her, she is loved by you the Father ,You the Son, & you the Holy Spirit. My sister God Loves You & i Love be very Blessed in Jesus Name IPray
I have been through what you have also. I tell you, although it is very difficult, and it it very heartbreaking...you are much better off without him.. he will hurt you again, and maybe even your children. I pray, Dear Lord, to be with this woman and heal her pain. Heal her heart, her mind, her body, and her soul. Help her recover from this abuse, and please give her the strength to move on with her life in Your Love, Please comfort her, oh Lord, and fill her full of Your Holy Spirit. Please bring a wonderful God loving man into her life someday when she is ready. Someone who will love her and be kind to her the way she deserves. In Jesus name. Amen (There really are good men out there.)