I know I haven't been here as much as I should and I probably don't deserve to ask for help, but I need help now more than I ever have! My husband definitely wants a divorce & me out of his life! I know he's absolutely right when he says I haven't been a good wife. I haven't done enough. I've relied & depended on his good nature, patience, & tolerance way too much. I thought the few decent qualities I had were enough. They weren't & aren't. Please, I ask you to pray for my husband & God to give me one last chance to save my relationship with my husband & our marriage! To let him find one last spark or dying ember of love for me & give me another chance. Please pray for God to fix all my faults so that I may become the wife he wants & needs me to be. All I ask is for God to have mercy on me & spare my marriage. This is my last & only chance. Please God in spite of myself, don't let me blow it!
P.S. I need help before it's too late!
Thank you Nimmi. God Bless You! I have used every last candle I have for this one request! I hope it's not in vain!
Thank you kind souls all! My husband apologized and says he does not want to divorce! I feel relieved yet apprehensive because we have been there before. I know God is intervening. I also know this is an ongoing battle. Please continue to pray for us for I want us to find LASTING peace and happiness! I have read all of your comments and will take guidance from them and God. If we can get along for at least a month I will know that we are on the right path. God Bless you all and I thank all of you with all my heart and soul!
I knew it was too good to be true. It always is. Even though I told my husband I will do "EVERYTHING" in my power to change, to be a better person, and wife, he still complains. It takes hard work and time to change. I work long hours and don't have the energy I need to do everything I want to. I can't take his mood swings, constant complaints, and remarks any more. I'm tired of this roller coaster ride of a marriage. I read a comment by someone saying I relaxed because he's back. He's never left me physically, only mentally and emotionally. It's hard to relax when one is constantly being attacked. I don't know if it's mental, physical, or depression doing this. He supposedly is no longer seeing the OW, but no matter he is poisoned against me now. No matter what I do, it will never be good enough. I know that now. I will never measure up to her in his mind. So thank you all for your prayers, but you can stop praying for me because we're so broken, we can't be fixed. There's only one way to fix us. We need to be apart. There's a point when you have to face the truth and go with it. I am giving the rest of my candles to someone who prays for all on this site. Hopefully they can light the way for others who need help. Please pray for them.
Never a dull moment! I don't know what to make of it, but the OW showed up at my "JOB" today and left a note for me stating she was sorry and wanting my forgiveness and friendship. I think she's trying to get my husband to contact her since we've changed our number, while all she's done is prove to him how unstable she really is! God does work in mysterious ways! Hopefully, my husband will have the sense not to contact her! Please pray that she stays away from us!
Dear Star..I feel what you are going through ..i know it is very hard..But I want to ask you though I know it is hard but Just leave things in God's hand..When he says those remarks and accusations don't answer..smile and walk away..when you do that he will eventually finds nothing to say to you..and pray..pray as much as you can.God always listens and he is working for your best..Divorce or not..it will be for your best..Just do what you can do to make a better you..don't mention her ever infront of him and be patient..God with you.
Oh Lord in heaven , please forgive this lady as she has realized her wrong doings, and make this couple last in thier relationship for all of thier life time on earth.
Thank you lord for your mercy. Amen.
LORD PLEASE CONTINUE TO SHOW THIS COUPLE THE UNDERSTANDING THAT IS NEEDED IN THIS RELATIONSHIP SO THAT IT MAY TRULY HEAL.AMEN
Thank you Lord God so much for answering this woman's prayer and touching the heart of her husband. We know that only you can have done this and only you have touched her husband's heart to change it. Lord I pray that you will please please be with this family and let them reflect your compassionate love in their every move. Let their tongues be slow to anger and to always communicate. Lord God, be ever more present in their lives een more so than you were before. Lord you are amazing and this is truly an example of your love and power working in our lives. Please be present and grant the same miracles in others lives where there are relationship troubles and heal all pain. In Jesus' name I give to you this prayer with the complete confidence that you will answer it! Amen!
Dear Lord Jesus,
Hear Our prayers to our sister, Let your Holy spirit guide here family,That they well not be broken,Touched heartOf her Husband and mind change here decision.
may the good lord, guide you and your husband in this your time of need. he is always with you " remember the footprint"
LET'S PRAY... FATHER IN JESUS NAME, YOU HONOR THE COMMITMENT IN MARRAIGE, YOU CAN SPEAK TO THE HEARTS AND MINDS OF MEN AND WOMEN ANYWHERE. I KNOW THERE IS NOTHING TO HARD FOR YOU, SO I ASK THATYOU SEND A RESTORATION AND RESOLUTION TO EVERY MATTER THAT HAS PRESENTED ITSELF AGAINST THIS UNION. RESTORE THE LOVE JOY PEACE TRUST AND FAITH. SOW A NEW SEED OF ENCOURAGEMENT ONE FOR THE OTHER. BLESS THIS HUSBAND AND THIS WIFE INDIVIDUALLY AND THEM JOINTLY. GRANT FAVOR IN THIS MARRIAGE THAT WOULD CAUSE THEM BOTH TO BE GODLY SORRY FOR ANY WRONG DOING OR ILL INTENT. MANIFEST A FORGIVNG SPIRIT INTHEM BOTH, FATHER HAVE YOUR WAY AND I WILL PERSONALLY GIVE YOU THE PRAISE. IN JESUS NAME AMEN.
Dear Lord, Please fill this women with all your love and understanding regarding marriage. To have a worthy partner in life is such a blessing. There is a saying, "A happy family is but an earlier heaven". We can all have a little piece of that when we are blessed by God. May he shine down on you.
to be a good wife/husband is a lifelong process...Everyday God gives us the chance to be one...we'll pray that
God will protect all marriages in the world.....protect our relationship with our wife/husband.....
I ENCOURAGE COUNCELING! NEVER GIVE UP BECAUSE IT IS NSVER TOO LATE. HANG IN THERE GIRL! GOD BLESS.
May the GOOD LORD continue to bless u and your husband. May he lead u all down the right road, I ask the lord to bless u especially to find it in your heart to love your self, once you love your self u will become a better person never give up. Always remember that GOD NEVER turn his back on us he is always ready to give us another chance, his arms are always open. So always remeber to tank him even when things are good in your life. amen.
Thank the Lord for He is a great God, a true God, a God for us all. If we call unto His name in the name of Jesus we shall be healed.
Dear Star
The Good LORD has heard our prayers. Remember the day when GOD commanded Joshua to conquer Canaan. Joshua 1:8-9. My sister, please read this scripture, it is very powerful. You know what, you have already this battle and you are more than a conquerer. Just praise the LORD.
Marriage isn't a destination it's a journey. God please hold this marriage close to your heart as they will do the same.. Amen