Praise to all,

I am Melanie from secunderabad, i have been married for one and a half year now, Im the only child to my parents,,,,my husband is in kuwait, and visits only for 2months in a year, During this one year of my marriage i was physically abused by my husband,even though he came on short visits, in the month of march i was confirmed pregnant with twins,,from the very start of my pregnancy i had problems,,,but still i carried the pregnancy for six months, on august 1st 2007, i started to get some pain in the stomach, i never knew what pain it was,,as this is my first pregnancy, then i was taken to hospital only to be told that i had started the contractions,,,the doctors at the hospital tried to very hard to subside the contractions, but i progressed very soon into labour and had to deliver my babies, who died 5minutes after birth due to extreme prematurity...

Soon afterwards not even a week of this great loss,,my husband started torturing me, as he was brain washed by his sister and her husband...It all started like this,,,I used to have a credit card before marriage, wherein there was amount accumulated, my husband who is dead against me using credit cards, told me, not to use as he will pay the whole amount, and he broke the card,,,I never used the card afterwards,,,but during my preganancy and before i could loose my babies, there was replacement card sent to me,,,and I had to go to hospital, where i was told to take out a scan,,,the scan was costing me a bit of amount and since i did not have so much cash on me, i used the card,,,then again i used the card in the hospital when i got admitted and i had to pay an advance and then the treatement would start...I agree that i made a mistake by not telling my husband about this,,,but during that time my husband handed over the card to his brother in law to pay the amount,,,this brother in law of his told him i used the card,,but did not tell him in a proper manner for what purpose the card is being used,,,my husband got wild for this and started accussing my parents and me for cheating him...the hospital bill came upto 8000-10000, but my husband was told by his sister that it is only 5000, so my husband belived her, instead of his wife...afterwards he took away his atm card, through which i used to withdraw money he sent for me, as he made me to stop working after marriage, so iam totally dependant on him, he gave away everything to his sister and her husband to handle,,he has taken away all my rights as a wife,,,yes he left me without anything now it is almost a month,,,when i try to explain to him, he does not understand, he feels that his sister is right and what he says is right...I feel my marriage is falling apart, as my husband is listening to someone else and not willing to understand his wife..all he says is i should leave my parents, but he will not leave his people,,is this right?please advise me on this..he is acting so mean and selfish to me...I love my husband and want things to work out for us,,but the way he speaks and uses words is really very hurting..Now im not able to take the right step, i want to be guided in the proper manner,,,Now i want to start working but still he says no...but i want to go out and work...as my husband as told me such rude things..Yes I do agree i too made a mistake, I feel sorry for that, but my husband is just not willing to keep things between us,,he wants to involve his sister and is listening to her most of the time...he even calls me very occassionally,,and even when he calls he is just shouting and screaming about something, that is because he spends most of the time speaking to his sister,,he does not care for me anymore, he openly tells me this,,,he speaks so rudely,,,he says he does not love me...Im so unhappy in life...i really donot know why life is being so hard on me...PLEASE ADVISE ME ON THIS!!!
My husband is so mean and selfish, that he did not come when i needed him the most, during my preganancy i always told him to come down, i told him i wanted him to be there for the delivery,,but he was not there beside me...he never even came down when our little sons were gone...I'm not putting the entire blame on him,,,i agree i too made a mistake, but things would have been different if it was just between us,,but my husband thinks by listening to others he is right...he really does not care for me at all...I know if he had true love for me, he would not behave as he is doing now...I feel so cheated... Please pray for me and my husband. Pray that everything so be done according to the will of God.

PLEASE MAIL ME BACK WITH AN ADVISE...WE REALLY NEED SOMEONE TO TALK AND EXPLAIN THINGS TO US... I WOULD BE REALLY GRATEFUL.


PLEASE PRAY FOR MY FALLING MARRIAGE.

regards
Melanie