To make a long story short as possible.... I have a son who is 15 with severe ADHD, he has the maturity level of a 12 yr old. he seems to get along better with younger kids. At 14 he dated a girl ( which I didn't approve of and tried to break up because at 14 thats way too young) I assumed she was my son's age because of how her mom allows her to dress and all the makeup she wore. On the other hand the girls mom knew the age difference and was ok with them being together. They got attached to each other after 1 and a half yrs together. I found out her real age about 6 months ago. My son is 15 and she is 13. I made them break up. This girl got a new boyfriend 2 days after and started harassing my son. She MSNed him tying to make him jealous , rubbing it in. he had to block her. Then 4 weeks ago she saw my son outside with one of his friends. She was high on pot and was throwing herself at him and even grabbed his privates. he pushed her away. This week my son was made to go down to the police station. Apparently her mom wants to charge my son with statutory rape. At the police station my son was very honest and broke down in tears.Apparently the girls brother and some other kids were bullying him because he was a virgin. They taunted him and put so much pressure on him. he just wanted to fit in. The girl asked him to do stuff with her ( not all the way) and he did. He said right away he felt guilty and ashamed. I asked him if that was why he stopped going to church and he said yes.All the kids thought he was a geek. He has already asked God to forgive him and says he knows God has. Unfortunately my son might have to go to jail for it. He is just a kid and is terrified. This girl is now on her 3rd boyfriend already and walks around boldly in front of us, throwing her self all over the boys. She is also spreading rumors that my son is gay to everyone . My son can't even go back to school. Which only means he fails all his classes.
Our family is falling apart. There is only me and my son. Satan is torturing us. I pray and pray and it seems it never stops. My son knows what he did is wrong and hasn't stopped crying over it since. Kids make mistakes at young ages due to all the peer pressure. my son and I are so terrified, WE need prayer desperately. I can't even imagine what my son with the ADHD and all is going through right now. I don't think this family can afford to be crushed anymore. My son says he will go back to church and turn his life around.PLEASE HELP!!!!!!