My boyfren's financial situation is not getting any better, he had a big fight with his father over money issues and his father said some really really nasty things to make him feel really really depressed...and he felt really really hopeless and down, I am extremely worried when he talks about killing himself and when he mention about being a leech in this world. I find it extremely unfair that why his life is so hard, he is only 25 and it seems like he is carrying tonnes of burden on his shoulder. He asked me to leave him and he claim that it is for my own good because he do not want to be a burden to me. I refused.
I hope that God will hear my despair and my boyfren's despair, I hope things will change for the better. I do not want my boyfren to feel suicidal, i cried and cried and my boyfren too, he lost hope on life and he wish he could die the very next day.. why is life so unfair? why is God not answering to our prayers? when is our rock bottom? when is God gonna help us? I feel so helpless and I have never felt so lost before.
does anyone believe in being born and destine to fail or destine to suffer in misery.. my boyfren does, he has been telling me abt how much suffering he went thru in his life and why is he born to suffer. he felt that he shld have been better off dead when he was still a baby so that he will not have to suffer, he blame his existence to his parents financial problem, he felt that if he is gone, things most probably will be better for his parents.. oh dear God, please take away all this depressing thought away from my boyfren, let him be happy and positive again, i really wish there is a miracle to turn the situation around, we need something to happen to make things right. i do not wish that one day i receive news that my boyfren has killed himself and abandon me and the whole world... i hope his faith will be retored and his father will just shut his mouth up and not be mean mouthed.
i was out with my boyfren for almost a whole day, we went window shopping and a nice lunch, he seems to have lighten up alot and he feel so much better after talking more things to me but he still feel bitterness towards his father. Their relationship has not been good all along and the father is always been very mean to his mother and himself. Even though his father is also a christian but he is not a staunch believer, which explains why sometimes when he is angry he will say mean things like it is useless to go to church and believe in God.
My guess is that because of his father's weak faith towards God and the lack of unity in the household which attracts alot of attack from evil forces. I wish that his father would change to be a kind and generous staunch believer of God. I hope the glory of God would lead him to wisdom and understand the true meaning of God. I wish that things will change for the good between the father and son. Because I always believe a harmonious, happy and united family will overcome any obstacles in life. And with God's blessing there will be no problem in the world that is unsolvable. Even though his father is mean mouth but he is not a evil person, I pray that he will change and be a better person and my boyfriend will also soften his attitude towards his father..
i have to thank some of the wonderful people who have always stick by me with their prayers, karlam TLH and cju you three are the first three prayers i received and you cannot imagine how grateful i felt towards it. i was delirious and depressed and your prayers came in really timely to give me a ray of hope. and i greatly appreciate all whom have send me a prayer, thank you so so much.
I know what you are going through. My husband too feels hopeless, bitter and suicidal. Especially today was the worst. I pray that the lord will continue to show you a ray of hope and eventually heal your family and help you grow closer together. In Jesus name, I pray. Amen
Please heal this situation Lord and I ask you to please grant them both the deliverance from this trial and please bless them with the finances and hope and help they so need. God Bless you both amen
I believe a Christian Family counseler would be the best thing to get some personal help for your boyfriend and I know this is not an easy subject to deal with...and especially when it comes to suicide too...and this is very serious. The best thing to do is think of what is causing the father to be in a mean spirit ...did he have a bitter life as a child or is being pressures be cause of the financial difficulties or is he embarassed. Both you and your boyfriend can talk to someone at the church ...and go for job career center and look in the help wanted ads to work for someone who is in need of help...like cutting grass for the elderly, shopping or you can both open up a catering business to help feed the neighbor etc. Check with the minister,paster or an elderly to help you with your situation. At the same token...let your boyfriend's father have some time to think things through with his life...you may want to send him a heartfelt card or a sympathy card stating how you feel and that you are praying for the family members as well. Let the Lord open up their hearts, mind and spirit to save their relationship. And may God Bless you and your boyfriend with many Blessings. When things cool down a bit have your boyfriend take his dad out fishing or bowling or what ever to have fun together....Just have them all say "I love You" maybe this is what's missing in their lives! Love is the Best medicine. Amen
Almighty and Everliving Father, with you there is no difficult situation that cant be solved, and so please Lord, I join my faith with your Daughter and pray that you step into this Family and turn things around. Heal them financially, emotionally and above all, spiritually that their testimonies will flow in Jesus Name, Amen.
lord please help this family not to fight over financial problems but to grow closer and help one another and grow closer to you and we thank yopu for everyday you bring them closer together and hearing our prayers in jesus precious name amen god bless you
Father do not let finances destroy relationships in this family. Restore and recover what was lost. May there be no condemnation or feelings of failure in this sitation they are facing. I ask for provision for them in Jesus name amen.
Lord Please bless and heal the pain her boyfriend is in. Please grant him the counseling, financial blessings, medical care and love and courage and strength and comfort he so needs. Please heal his depression and deliver him from these trials. Please heal her and grant her all she needs to deal with this too and to be able to support him. Please st jude st anne st anthony st dymphna st rita st michael and mother mary pray unceasingly for him and her. God Bless amen
Hi there,
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I feel your pain and God I ask that U show them a sign of your Love for them. Pour your blessings upon them and break the chains of depression, hopelessness, despair and send financial healing too. Amen. God Bless and Keep U safe
Lord please intervene in this young man's situation. Rebuke the enemy off his life and bless him to come into a favorable position in life. Supply his needs, I thank you in Jesus Name!
Father Lord,
I pray that you will help this lady's boyfriend see the light of your hope. I believe in being suicidal as something that is not your fault and that you could be as negative as she is describing without realizing you are wrong about it. I myself was suicidal Lord, and I know my God that things can get much better if not perfect when we make use of medicine and therapy as well as faith. I know Lord you can restore this guy's health and I pray that you put the right professionals and significant others to help him. Ultimately, Lord, what helped me was to know that I needed to fight regardless of whether I saw hope or not because your Word says I should live until you call me to your house. I pray this guy will have that same desire to fight for the Lord's will. In the name of Jesus. Amen.
(xxjamboreexx show your boyfriend this message because I strongly believe hearing the wonderful experience of recover of somebody else will help him a lot) Hugs.
LORD I PRAY SALVATION AND DELIVERANCE.,FILL WITH HOLY SPIRIT. LORD GIVE YOUNG MAN A JOB/CAREER, OR COLLEGE. FILL THE VOIDS IN HIS LIFE LORD.I PRAY HE BE A TITHER WITH FINANCES/BLESSING,LOOSE LOVE UNITY PEACE HARMONY. TOGETHERNESS IN FAMILY LORD.I BIND DEPRESSION SUICIDE FESR DOUBT I REBUKE IT CAST INTO THE ABYSS BY THE POWER OF GOD. IN JESUS NAME AMEN.
Father , Your word says that therefore there is no condimnation in Christ Jesus, there for i come agenst ..ALL ..Bondages, that wood hold this young man down. I bind all demonick forces,from him, and say he is blood bought ,by the blood shed on calvery he belongs to Jesus,I ask the Holy Spirit to rap his armes around this young man and restore him mentily ,Fisiculy, and Spiritualy as well as financially.I clame total reconcuiliashon for him in Jesus name.Bless him SO GOOD Father God that He will compleet your call upon his life,an over come to the point every one will see your good works in him and come to Jesus, as a result.Remember the devil doesn't cause truble fore the ones he already has ....Just the ones he doesn't.... and the ones God loves. Thank you father for the answers to this prayer in advance.
Dear Father,
I pray in faith that you will abundantly bless and heal this family of any type of lack that is not allowing them not prosper. I pray in faith that all negative thoughts be banished and replaced with thoughts of joy and praise. I pray in faith that you will bring peace and harmony between father and son. I pray in faith that this family be open, receptive, and patient to the healing of their situation because you do answer ALL prayers.
AMEN
My dear sister, know that everything happens for a cause and sometimes things happen so that man will see God's glory. Never give up hope but keep praying. Read Psalm 13 all the time and you will see the glory of God