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tomwitt
tomwitt Oklahoma City

My Marriage

My name is Tom, my wife Tamara & I separated Sept. 1st Labor Day and it is so so hard not being able to be with her each day and to hold her when she comes in from work and talk with her and to lay beside her when we go to bed each night, I miss her so terrible bad all I do is cry. Please Pray for Gods complete restoration in our marriage and love. Thank you and God Bless all that pray for us

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Update - 9 months ago:

Sorry I have'nt done this untill now but I drive for a living and have just now been able to find the time to update, anyway I got to talk to Tamara a couple of days ago, (first time I have got to see her in over a month), it was so nice and she let me kiss her twice which I did'nt know if she would let me. Anyway I still don't see any progress yet, I ask her if we could have a second chance at things and the only response I could get was we'll see. Guess thats better than nothing. It Hurts still very much but I Love her very much and I will keep standing and believing untill God restores our marriage, hopefully soon I miss her and want to hold her again so bad. As Abraham said "God will supply"

Update - 8 months ago:

PLEASE ITS SO Hard Standing for Tamara and I, PLEASE PRAY! I spoke to Tamara today to see if we could have lunch together and just spend some time with each other and she said no that she didn't have time (always gives me excuses, everytime I ask) and was angry and rude with me. I also ask her if we were going to be able to fix what is wrong and could we go to counciling and she said that she didn't know and that she DID NOT want to go to counciling. I just don't know what else I can do, I've tryed so many ways. I guess it is totally a God thing from this point on

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LovingHearts
LovingHearts El Paso, Texas

Dear Tom there is only one counsler you need and that is our Lord. Thee is only one Healer you need and that is our Lord. With god ALL things are possible. Do not lose faith in our Lord. Do not look on your circumstance but look to the Lord for we walk by faith not by sight. Trust in Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understand, in all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your paths.

Lord we lift Tom up to you in prayer and praise you for keeping him close to you. lord we pray that in this new year of 2008 Tom and his wife experience a reconciliation and renewel of their marriage and love. We know that only you can create agape love and passion between a husband and wife and set them on solid rock. Lord we thank you for the restoration of this marriage and all marriages you are healing aroudn the globe. In Jesus Name Amen

Baruch
Baruch Philippines

I'm still praying to God to heal and restore your marriage. May God touch the heart of Tamara. In Jesus' holy and mighty name, we ask and pray. Amen.

Harley Rider

lord we thank you for your blessings and favor - though none are deserving..

watch over tom and hold him close. quiet his mind and ease his pain. he is a dear soul who cares deeply for his wife and others.

we ask in jesus name for your continued blessings and favor! help him with his walk with you. we all fall short and i am very guilty of it too dear lord!

forgive our sins and help us to love one another and see each other thru your eyes.

we praise your holy name father god! we long to be with you and pray that your return would be soon.

thank you for hearing our humble prayers for this brother in christ.

we give it all to you and thank you so much lord for working it all out for your glory and honor. in jesus name we pray.

god bless you tom! i pray you are doing well and are being very blessed indeed.

thank you so much for caring, praying and for the candles that you lit for my dear family and me. it means a lot tom!

take care my brother!

Michaelanthony
Michaelanthony New Braunfels, TX

My Dear God...Thank You for the affirmation and revelation...Tom, I have something to share and it is meant for you and I. A bit over an hour ago, I send you a Spirit lead thought about the need for us to be obidient. Just a minute ago, I opened my email and....well, here, let me copy and paste it right here for you...
ALL THESE BLESSINGS WILL COME UPON YOU AND
ACCOMPANY YOU IF YOU OBEY THE LORD YOUR GOD:
YOU WILL BE BLESSED IN THE CITY AND BLESSED IN
THE COUNTRY. YOU WILL BE BLESSED WHEN YOU
COME IN AND BLESSED WHEN YOU GO OUT.
( DEUTERONOMY 28:2,3, 6 *NIV )

Dear Michael,
God's many blessings continue to please us, so we should
do our best to please God as well!

We do that by obeying His Commandments and by loving
our neighbors as ourselves. For our Savior Jesus Christ said:
"YOU SHALL LOVE THE LORD YOUR GOD WITH ALL YOUR
HEART, WITH ALL YOUR SOUL, AND WITH ALL YOUR MIND.
THIS IS THE FIRST AND GREAT COMMANDMENT. AND THE
SECOND IS LIKE IT: YOU SHALL LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR
AS YOURSELF ON THESE TWO COMMANDMENTS HANG
ALL THE LAW AND THE PROPHETS."
( MATTHEW 22:39-40 )

So Michael, do your best each day to live by our Lord's
Commandments, and share your love with others so: THAT
YOU MAY WALK WORTHY OF THE LORD, FULLY
PLEASING HIM, BEING FRUITFUL IN EVERY GOOD WORK
AND INCREASING IN THE KNOWLEDGE OF GOD.
After all when you do, His blessings will flow abundantly
to you! For it is even written that: WHEN A MAN'S WAYS
PLEASE THE LORD, HE MAKES EVEN HIS ENEMIES TO
BE A PEACE WITH HIM. Amen.
My Brother in Christ...this is no coicidence...This was sent to us by the Holy Spirit and we are to take what we are instructed and be OBIDIENT to His Word. You may not see it right now...but this is a clear sign of His blessings that He is creating in us a new work and through that work we are to be the Godly Man that He is designing us to be for our wives and for our families. God Bless you Brother!!

Michaelanthony
Michaelanthony New Braunfels, TX

My Brother Tom, I am passing on something that has been placed in me that perhaps you too may find useful in your circumstance. I have proclaimed that I have placed my marriage at the foot of the cross of our Lord and Savior to tend to. I have claimed His victory in our marriage and I accept it as done by His Mercy and Grace. It is done. Your marriage is also in such a condition...the union is healed and it is not for you and I to be looking for the light at the end or the beginning...No, my brother, we are to focus on our Lord and be obidient to Him...We stand on His Word and if you will go to Deuteronomy 28 and live His Word...Notice that the emphasis on everything he has already prepared for us is in our obidience to Him. My job, and perhaps yours as well, is to be His Child and just accept that He has worked on our wives and we will all be restored in His way and in His timing. Claim it in the Name of Jesus Christ. You are in my prayers. Amen.

Michaelanthony
Michaelanthony New Braunfels, TX

My Brother Tom, fill me in...I pray for you now, and know that God has a plan fo ryou and yours. Fill me in on how I can pray specifically for you...it has been a while since I have heard from you. God is Blessing you!

Michanu
Michanu Hilo, Hawaii

Our Father In Heaven,
We thank You for the love You have blessed us with. We thank You for the many simple blessings You have bestowed upon us. We thank You for touching our hearts with Your love and good grace. We ask You to touch the hearts of this couple with Your wisdom and guidance. We ask You to grant them the strength, serenity and peace in their hearts so that they will know what path You wish them to take. We ask You to bless them both with compassion and patience, so that they may be able to communicate without hurt and anger and be able to listen to each other.
We ask these things in the name of Jesus Christ,
Amen

Harley Rider

lord we thank you for hearing our prayers. we praise you for all that you are, and the gracious, merciful and forgiving nature that you display - though we could never deserve it.

thank you for making things happen where tom and tamara were able to talk and be with each other for some time.

we trust you to work in their hearts and minds. draw them cloes to you. we ask for your will in the situation.

wrap tom in your loving arms. heal his broken heart and take the fears and frustrations from him and replace them with good thoughts - positive and encouraging.

thank you lord for wanting what is best for us, and for hearing our humble prayers. in jesus name we pray.

Baruch
Baruch Philippines

I always pray to God to restore all broken relationships and failed marriages, but let His will be done accordingly. Amen.

CarmenProfit

Dear Lord I come Before u first to give u thank's for all u do in my life, and in my familys life. To thank u for all the tree's grass, my son, my husband, and for all those on this site.
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penelope04
penelope04 Philippines

I continue to pray for you and your wife. May the good Lord strengthen your marriage and renew it to what it once was. I pray that He will make all things better soon.

helpless_needhelp

praying as alwayz....pooja

Desiderata
Desiderata Omaha Ne

Father in Heaven, please continue to soften Tamara's heart towards her husband Tom that they may reunite. Lord place a deep longing for Tom within her that leads her back to her loving husband. Fill both of them with love and forgiveness for one another. Let them be able to wipe the slate clean and have a fresh start. Lord bless Tom with peace during this difficult time as he waits for you to work in his life. Thank you Lord for hearing this prayer. In Jesus Name. Amen

helpless_needhelp

DEAR BROTHER PRAYING FOR UR SUCCESSFUL RELATION.
MAY U AND TAMARA GET ALL THE HAPPINESS AND SWEETNESS IN UR LOVELY RELATIONSHIP..BLESS U.POOJA

LovingHearts
LovingHearts El Paso, Texas

Praise the Lord! I am so thankful that you had positive interaction. Tom make sure you always have positive interaction with your wife. Keep praying scriptures.

Lord we thankyou for your movement into this marriage. Lord we know that you can create miracles and heal any marriage. Lord we ask you to continue softening the heart of this wife so she may quickly be reconciled to her husband with new love, faith and trust. Lord bless them with a stronger marriage which is more intimate and grounded in you. Amen