I ASK U TO PUT UR HANDS ON THIS YOUNG ALDY GOD. LORD PUT THE FAMLIY BACK TOGETHER SOON.IN THE NAME OF THE LORD AMEN.

LOVE IS A CHOICE

Another thing we must understand about love is that it is a choice. True love is not something we trip into and out of easily. God's love for us endures all things and does not change, even when we do. He doesn't love us for measuring up to a certain standard. He loves us because He is love Himself. There is not one thing He does that is not motivated by love. When we fail, He does not reject us, but in compassion reaches out to restore us. Though He sees the hardness, blindness and hypocrisy in our hearts, He still loves us. He loves us enough to not overlook these things, because He knows they will destroy us. He loves us with a consuming, passionate, holy, jealous and gentle love. He loves us so much that he continually offers us forgiveness, comfort, encouragement, peace and joy. Finally, Jesus showed that He loves us more than His own life when he laid it down His life for us.

Because He loves us in this way, so we also are to love each other. Nowhere is God's love for us better illustrated than in marriage.

"Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her, so that He might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the Word, that He might present the church to Himself in glorious splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such things--that she might be holy and faultless. Even so husbands should love their wives as (being in a sense) their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no man ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and carefully protects and cherishes it, as Christ does the church. Because we are members (parts) of His body. For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother and shall be joined to his wife and the two shall become one flesh. This mystery is very great, but I speak concerning (the relation of) Christ and the church. However, let each man of you (without exception) love his wife (being in a sense) his very own self; and let the wife see that she respects and reverences her husband--that she notices him, regards him, honors him, prefers him, venerates and esteems him; and that she defers to him, praises him and loves and admires him exceedingly" (Ephesians 5: 25-33, Amplified Bible).

In this verse we see that the union between man and woman is a portrayal of the divine romance between Christ and the Church. The only reason man and woman are attracted to each other and desire to build a life together, is because this principal is true in a spiritual sense. The natural realm is an illustration of the spiritual realm, and all spiritual truths existed long before the natural ones were manifested. In the same that way men and women seek each other to become one, so our spirits are also seeking oneness with God--and He with us.

Just as Eve was brought forth from Adam's side, so the church was brought forth from the wounded side of Jesus. We are "bone of His bone and flesh of His flesh." God is a "family man" seeking to establish a union of love between His son Jesus and His Bride, who is the church. Together, they will rule His creation and bring forth many offspring, just as Adam and Ever were originally commissioned to do.

God hates divorce because it is a perversion of the holy picture of the His Son and the Church. This is also why He hates homosexuality, sexual promiscuity and other sexual and gender-related sins. All of these have their source with the Evil One who seeks to pervert all of God's truths until they are a twisted lifeless shamble of what they once were. When God's truths are twisted, instead of being instruments of life and freedom, they become tools of death and destruction. What can bring us the greatest happiness can also bring us the greatest sorrow. God took a great risk when He put so much power in love. He knew it could both heal--and hurt--us more deeply than anything else He created. Yet, if this is true for us, it is even more true for God Himself. He also, is deeply touched and wounded by love. Yet, because He is willing to risk His very heart for the sake of love, so we must be willing to take that risk as well. He is our example. God's love alone has the deepest power to fulfill us. However, it can only fulfill us to the extent that we use and understand it properly--and we cannot know true love unless we know God.

The most basic principal of true, godly love is this: Love lays down its life for others. "Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends" (John 15:13).

This "laying down of our life" can be manifested in many ways. Basically, it includes loving others more than ourselves, thinking of their welfare, honoring them, forgiving them, wanting the best for them, etc. This is to be practiced for both those who love us and those who hate us. Furthermore, this is to be a way of life--not an occasional mood, when we are feeling benevolent towards the world! Love is a deliberate choice.

Generally, the farther away one is from us, the easier it is to love them. We can love them in a broad way. The closer we get to someone however, the more they are magnified to us. We see both their faults and strengths more clearly. It is here that love must become a choice. Will we continue to love them despite their failures, or will we back off? Because marriages are the closest of all relationships, they are also tested the most. If we have found that we are peering at our mate continually through a magnifying glass, it may be time to step back a bit and refocus on the "big picture." Likewise, if all we see is the "big picture" we can lose the intimacy in the foundation of marriage. When we peer closely at our loved ones, their faults are magnified, but so is their beauty as well. We need to continually seek the Lord for His perspective, so we can see the loved one through His eyes of love and mercy. After all, He sees us closer than anyone, and yet still loves us!

By studying God's love for us, we can learn that love takes work, patience, commitment, faithfulness, and the willingness to take a risk. How different from the way the world tells us love is--an effortless, easy emotion! Emotions are a beautiful part of love, but nonetheless, they are only a part. They are the frosting on the cake, the harmony on the melody, the bloom on the flower. They cannot stand on their own, but rest on and grow from something else entirely.

Just trust in Christ and everything will work out for the best take care and I am praying for you and your family as always. Jesus will not give you anymore than you can handle, It will be ok Little Sister in Christ....God bless
Kevin

Lord Jesus, I pray that you will bless this family and fill their lives with peace, happiness, and unconditional love. Draw them close to you. In Jesus' name Amen.

I hope he realizes that he needs to step up and be a man. More than to you, he has a responsibility to your child. Hopefully, he will have enough compassion to at least think how his actions could negatively effect the life of a human being who will shortly enter this world. I hope peace and prosperity are with you and your child no matter what your husband decides to do with his life.

dear Lord Jesus please be with this young woman in this time of her life and grant her her heart desires by bringing her husband back to her so that they could raise their baby together for wit you nothing is impossible.AMEN!

Lord God, bless this young women and her baby. Lord lead her husband back home to her and his child. Lord Jesus, if they still not have you in their hearts, Lord save them and let them find happiness with you. Amen.

praise the lord siser don't worry .god is with u. god should take care u. ok amen..........................

praise the lord don't worry god is with u amen

Heavenly Father, I pray that you touch the heart of the husband and remind him about family life. Help him to come to the needs of his wife, to be there for her during her pregnancy, making it a happy one for. Bring unity and togetherness to them, erasing all negativities surrounding their lives. I ask this through your Son, Jesus Christ, Amen.

Beloved Father, I pray for this wonderful soul. I pray that you would heed her prayers and answer them. I pray that you be her strength and her guiding star. Give her the wisdom and favors in her life. I pray that her faith leads her to a better life through Jesus. I ask for this in Jesus name.
Amen

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Whatever is best for you. It will help you feel happy and bring joy in your life.

Have you ever been born again? If not, now may be the time God is calling you. I can tell you how to get born again. I was a devoted Catholic for 25 years but felt empty at heart until someone introduved me to the New Testament and asked me if I wanted to get saved and I said yes and handed over my life to Christ. Then the Holy Spriit filled me.
Please leave me a message at my link or email me at corking@live.com. Please, I really would like to share my experience with you.
Corinne

Dear Father in Heaven please bless this lady and her baby. Please bless her husband and may he stop and realize how much his wife needs him. O God comfort and bless her and please give her the strength to keep on trusting in you In Jesus name I pray. Amen.

Please don't believe that your prayer request is small...you are a Child of God and as such ANY matter that you have is significant to us all. I noticed that this was posted four months ago. How is the situation now?
Father, you are the provider of all healing, of all reconcilitation, of all matters of the heart. Lord, bless this family and bring them together in the Name of Jesus Christ. Amen.

GOD, SAVE MY FRIENDS LIFE & ALL THE LIVES RELATED TO HER. GOD BLESS YOU. HE HELP U. POOJA