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charmaine_fernandes

Depressed

At this moment in my life i need comfort.Nothing seems to be working and my life has come to a standstill.I am really very unhappy in my life and i dont want to live it but not finish it as well coz then i know its a sin.since childhood i have seen all problems in my family. my parents seperation coz my dad use to physically abuse my mum.we were in karachi at tht time and then we came to India and at present stay with my mums family.We are having citizenship problem since then.My mums family is not very supportive and tell us time and again to move out of the house when they fight
My job also is just useless, no much money to support both of us.I am in a relationship for the past 8 years , he too also wants to dominate me ..never allows me to do what i want to most of the time.He wants to mould me the way he wants me to be.I cant be myself though he loves me a lot but he is also too possessive.I cant live with him or without him. I am in tears most of the time
I am shattered and dont know what to do, my faith in God is weakening and i dont want to pray to him anymore because he has never given me anythg.I always use to console myself sayin maybe this is not the right time, but if not now then when will my right time come.Since childhood i am suffering.My years are running by when will i truly love my life and be happy.help me please

Update - 11 months ago:

I thank each one of you for your comforting words.I will continue praying to God with full faith and i know i will be overcome all the difficulties in my life with ease with Gods help and all your blessings.
thanks once again

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Agnnes
Agnnes Singapore

Dear Charmaine,
No one is spared of sufferings in life. It comes in many ways and forms. I should say it is part and parcel of life. Please correct me if I am wrong.
Dont forget dear, God our Father,our creater is watching over us.
HE knows everything. Think of some people whose sufferings maybe be worst than ours. When we pray for them our ssufferings will be lighter.

Lord God hear my prayer for Charmaine. Touch her and heal her wounds in her heart.
God Bless

charmaine_fernandes - 10 months ago: Thanks Agnnes ..i know that whatever God does is always the best for us but somtimes we tend to lose faith , but i know he has not forgotten me though i forget him somtimes..i pray to God to strengthen my faith in him
angela4gabriel
angela4gabriel Malaysia

Dear Charmaine, It is not healthy to keep looking at the past. Gen 19:26 - Lot's wife looked back and became a pillar of salt. I believe we should always look and press forward. Eph 1:3 - God has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus.So learn to focus on God and not on the problems.May God give you the strength and wisdom to rise up above the circumstances you are in. Do not lose heart, for in due season, you shall reap. Rejoice, rejoice and again I say rejoice. Be faithful , and He will be faithful.God bless

tumpkins

Paul suffered, not because he hadn’t prayed enough or because he forgot to ask God to remove these hard circumstances. No, Paul was the very one who told Christians in 1 Thessalonians 5:17 to pray continually, and to pray on all occasions (Eph. 6:18). So from Paul’s own life we can learn that a Christian can sometimes pray and ask God to remove hardships and God doesn’t. But He always promises to give us His strength and His peace if we are to go through hardships. My prayer for you today is God gives you strength to conquer and wisdom to understand. Love to keep you comforted. Blessed are the poor in spirit: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted. In Jesus Name Amen.

Michanu
Michanu Hilo, Hawaii

Our Father In Heaven,
We thank You for the many simple blessings You have bestowed upon our lives. We thank You for the opportunity we have to reach out to others through this site. We thank You for watching over us. We ask You to please bless Charmaine and her mother and keep them safe from harm. We ask You to grant them the strength and courage to overcome any obstacles for a full and happy life. We ask You to please bless those who are in the position to help them with compassion and Your wisdom.
We ask these things in the name of Jesus Christ,
Amen

Wambui
Wambui Nairobi

Are not five sparrows sold for two pennies? Yet not one of them is forgotten in God's sight. But even the hairs of your head are all counted. Do not be afraid; you are of more value than many sparrows. (Luke 12:6-7).

Charmaine, the Lord Loves you dearly, He has wonderfully created you and know can be compared to you. He has given you life and health just to start with. Count you blessings 1 by 1 and see how much the Lord has done for you. Each breath you take each day is a blessing. Remember that He has good plans for you, plans to prosper you and not to destroy you, plans to give you a hope and a future. Read the story of Joseph and see what Joseph went through before attaining his blessings. Start appreciating and loving yourself and you will see the change.

Father come through for this lady teach her to value and love herself for she is precious before your eyes. In jesus name amen

Jeyanthi

Dear loving sister don’t be frustrated. The creator our God is mighty and wonderful and loving father. He will never forsake those who called him deeply in heart. He is a loving father. His love for us is more than mother, father, husband and anyone in this world. He loved us not for this and not for that. He is loving us what ever we are. You call him whole-heartedly at all situations at all moments. Still he stays no to your answers then understand him that he does good only to those who called him. Don’t underestimate his plans and love. In your trails he may want to teach you his words. God put their loved ones into trails not for making them sad. He wants to use you. He wants to talk with you. He want to comfort you. He wants to walk alone with you. He loves you. He knows your heart. You read his word. Obey their teachings. Trust him at any times. Love him the most. Seek him the frist. Then he will give you everything more than you want. You give your love and heart to lord and you will experience his abundant blessings in all things.
I continually pray for you that God can meet you as a savior in his own ways.
JOY comes when you put JESUS first Others second and You Next. Live your life for Lord JESUS there you can find happiness blessings and joy in bad times also.

que
que India,

Dear Charmaine

Its touching to read your message. I just logged in and saw this mesage in my box. I know just telling you to pray and it will pass will solve your problem. ButI think all of us got thru trials of different kinds inour life. and you can be sure all come thru them some time or the other. You can try small things like trying to change your job. now if you say you tried and dint get one thats not the right attitude. make up your mind that you will get a good job by december and you bet you will get one for sure but you have to first make up your mind and say that you will get one. Thia way yuor finances will be better. Remind the Lord that you want a better life, to be happily married and to take care of your mum. Dont pray with a heavy heart,and when you pray youve got to believe that it will happen. That type of praying will bring you results. The Lord can work wonders inour life. there is nothing difficult for him to do,provided we believe that we will get an naswer when we speak to him. Sit alone in the night before you go to sleep say for about fifteen minutes and just wait in silence. when you wait on the Lord he will speak to you meditate on the Lord during this time and yuo will get an answer. remmeber the answer will come from unexpected sources. You dont plan anything, pray and leave it to the Lord and Chanrmaine dear you will come thru, I will be praying for you and for your mum.andeven for your relations that they will be good to youll. Trust in the Lord and you will see miracles in your life.God Bless you