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rose27
rose27 Melbourne, Australia

Please pray for my relationship (Updated) MORE UPDATES...

I really need prayer for my relationship. Particularly for my boyfriend. Things will be going along great and then all of a sudden he will start doubting the relationship and thinking about breaking up with me. He is very insecure and has trouble with commitment. He says he loves me, and i know that he does but he is jeopardising our relationship and destroying it. He has been going backwards and forwards since we have been together and it is really affecting me and my son. He says that he does want to be with me and marry me but he sometimes feels insecure and like he doesn't have what it takes to make me happy. I reassure him all the time but it only serves as a bandaid. His insecurities are damaging our relationship and I just don't know what to do. He has had a lot of hurt in the past and he has had numerous short lived relationships before me. He wants to get past these problems and I want to stand by him because I love him but it is becoming extremely difficult to take and really heart breaking. Its hard to be in love with someone and want to spend the rest of your life with them and not be able to feel secure with them. I realise that he can't give me security if he himself is an insecure person so please pray that he will get past this quickly, for good mental health and for insecurities to be gone, and for him to make that commitment and stick with it. Thank you. God bless.

Update - 11 months ago:

My boyfriend has come to me and said that he wants to make a commitment. He wants to do counselling to get over his insecuritiesand other problems that keep him from commitment and he is praying for God to help him to see the commitment through. Please pray for him that the Lord will help him stick to the promises that he has made. He wants this prayer and we really want it too. He is a good man, he is just struggling a bit and really needs the Lords help.

Update - 11 months ago:

Also, he has to go away for work trips a lot. Please pray for God to really protect our relationship during those times and for good times before he leaves. Please pray for a blessing on our relationship and that the time we do get to spend together will be great. Thank you so much for your prayers

Update - 11 months ago:

It hasn't been long but thought I would write an update. My boyfriend has been praying a lot for God to help him stay committed. This is good but I'm struggling to understand why if he says he is committed that he would still be concerned that things might not work out? He says "it's like you've never allowed the possibility of things not working out" I am committed to him and so I am committed to things working out. I don't understand his thinking. I believe if you are committed then you are committed, if you're not thats when you allow the possibility of it not working out.
I guess I am just feeling insecure and a bit discouraged. It is fantastic that he has recognised that he has struggles with commitment and wants to get past it and even do counselling, it is wonderful that he is praying for God to help him see it through and stand by my side because he loves me it just hurts sometimes and makes it feel like i'm not worth him standing by because it is so hard. I realise that it is his problem and it has been there long before I came along but I can't help but feel that it is because there is something wrong with me. I am trying to feel encouraged by the fact that he must really love me if he is making this effort with me and has never done that with anyone else he has been with, and by the fact that he is still with me. I love him and I am committed to seeing this through with him, it just really hurts sometimes. I really want to support him. I'm just struggling with knowing how. Please pray that he will realise how much I love him and that I am doing my best.Thank you so much for all of your prayers. Please continue to pray for us. Much agape love, God bless.

Update - 11 months ago:

My boyfriend and I have been having some troubles but he now says he is committed completely and he knows what he needs to do. Please pray that the Lord would give him the strength to do what needs to be done for us to have a full and happy relationship and please pray for him that the Lord would help him to let go of his past. Please pray that our love would grow stronger for one another and that we can get along and be happy. I know that he loves me and he said that he has just realised how much he really loves me as well and doesn't want to lose me. Thank you for your prayers.

Update - 11 months ago:

Thank you all for your prayers. Please continue to lift us up. There is still a lot of healing that needs to be done. My boyfriend has committed and I believe him but I am still feeling really insecure. Please pray that he will keep both feet in this relationship and that I can get over my fear and trust him and feel secure with him. I'm afraid that if I don't get over my insecurities soon then I risk damaging our relationship. I have been feeling really down. Please pray for us to be happy. He loves both me and my son and I am thankful to have him. I believe that he is committed and he is taking steps to show it I am just still feeling hurt and insecure. PLease pray for happiness for us and that God would bring joy to our relationship. Thank you. God bless

Update - 11 months ago:

It seems like things are getting much much better, thank you for all your prayers. We still have a little way to go though. Please pray for God's protection over our relationship and continued blessings and understanding. Please pray that we would be able to give each other what the other person needs and for happiness and joy in our relationship. Please pray that our love would continue to grow for one another and that our relationship would be one that is filled with love. We have had a bit of a breakthrough but we still really need prayers. Thank you so much once again. God bless

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bry
bry england

THANKS, Rose, for your prayers for my wife's friend, Annette. I will show these to her when she next calls. She will be thrilled! I continue to pray that God will move mightily in your relationships, and also meet ALL your needs. In Jesus' mighty name. Amen. bry xxx

cju
cju New Jersey, USA

Please Lord heal this couple and her son and let all be well. Please bless them mightily and let them be well and happy. God Bless you both amen

IngridR

Hi!
I know how difficult it is to feel insecure about a relationship. My boyfriend himself could not give me a stable relationship for about a year and a half, but he came to realize that he really loved me and wants to stay with me. I pray that your boyfriend will do the same. I pray that he will never feel again insecure about the relationship, but I also pray that you will be able to recognize his sincerity and trust him. I know your boyfriend is a special case because of what he went through, but you need to pray together with him since the Lord is always between two or three that pray together. I believe He can help you. I also wish and pray that you both reach the point when insecurities are gone and that your love grows so much that you get married for life. In the name of Jesus. Amen.

rose27 - 11 months ago: Thank you for your prayer, I agree with everything you said and I pray it as well in Jesus' name. God bless you
linanvh1025
linanvh1025 Diliman, QC

Your guy is so lucky to have you. It seems to me that God allowed him to find you so you can be a blessing to him. You have persevered no matter how difficult the journey has been, and now God will allow you to reap the fruits of your sacrifices. May He bless you and your family!

rose27 - 11 months ago: Thank you so much. Your message was beautiful and it really touched my heart. God bless
fin1710
fin1710 Singapore

Dear Father, I thank you for the relationship between Rose and her boyfriend and I thank you that her boyfriend is making commitments in this relationship. Lord, I bring the both of them to you and pray in Jesus' mighty name that you will protect this relationship in your hand and that you be in the center of their relationship. Bless this relationship abundantly and let it be fruitful and fill this relationship with your peace and joy. Pour your peace and joy unto Rose and her boyfriend so that they will feel your peace and joy everyday when together and that they will never feel insecured or afraid for you are holding onto the both of them in your hands and nothing will ever separate them as you have brought them together. I command the spirit of fear to leave them in the name of Jesus! I ask of these in the name of Jesus! Amen.

jbmssekandi
jbmssekandi Kampala Uganda

Father in heaven Your Name we praise unceasingly. Let your Reign fill our hearts. Farther we are sorry for our wrongs. We now forgive all whom we have wronged.
I surrender you Rose to the Holy Spirit of God, togther let's pray "Come now Holy Spirit and take control
Hold me in your loving arms and make me whole,
Wipe all doubts and fears and take my plight,
Draw me to your love and keep me by your side"

Rose! Receive now all your weapons of spiritual warfare to fight and destroy forever all the negative plans of satan against you in the Blood and name of Jesus. You were annointed in the Blood of Jesus,there is power on your tongue, God gave you an army of angles, for worship,for spiritual warfare, release them now. Command them precisely what to do! Farther I join my sister Rose to fight all the evil powers of darkness (Ephesians 6:12-18)
I bind and chain all the powers of darkness against sister Rose and all that has risen against her, I destroy them with the fire of the Holy Spirit in the Name and blood of Jesus. Thank You Jesus, Amen

cju
cju New Jersey, USA

Please Lord heal this couple and move in both to be where you need them to be. Please let them be healed and be stronger and communicate better. God Bless you all amen

anital7
anital7 Endland, UK

Lord God, please work in these people's lives, please help them to see whether this is right in your eyes or not. Lord God, please protect them from all trouble and heart break but above all Lord, let your will be done in their lives and may everything they do and say and everything we all do and say, be done to your Holy glory. IN Jesus' holy name AMen!

cju
cju New Jersey, USA

Please Lord heal this couple and bless her with the guidance and clarity she needs. Please move in her boyfriend to be strong and honest and respectful with her. Please Lord heal this relationship and let all the pain be gone. Please st jude st anne st anthony st michael st rita and mother mary pray unceasingly for her and him. God Bless you all amen

anocas62

i feel your pain and totaly undestand it i will keep u guys in my prayers.

taxett
taxett Port Neches, Tx.

I pray you don't give up on him. Sounds like praters are leading him in the right direction. Give it time. He is seeking help, so that means he realizes he has a problem and wants it corrected before making a total commitment. God bless you both.
Thank you so much for praying for my husband, Gene.

Awori
Awori Uganda,E.AFRICA

Lord Jesus, you who knows our every deed and need,pls put right this relationship,i am with you in prayers believing in Jesus' name. AMEN

Michanu
Michanu Hilo, Hawaii

Please don't give up hope or despair. There is nothing wrong with you, and you are a loving, caring woman who deserves a happy life with the ones you love. God Bless you and your family.

Our Father In Heaven,
We thank You for leading us here so we may seek comfort and also reach out to others. We thank You for watching over us as we live our lives. We thank You for the love and support we receive from our families and friends. We thank You for shining Your love upon us. We ask You to please bless this family with Your love and warmth. We ask You to bless them with Your guidance and wisdom so they may overcome all obstacles for a full and happy life together. We ask You to please bless her and touch her heart with peace and serenity, to bless her with confidence.
We ask these things in the name of Jesus Christ,
Amen

rokc
rokc Melbourne Victoria

Lord God, please continue to grow and develop this relationship and bless it with wisdom abundance and buckets of love, In Jesus name

AusGuy
AusGuy Australia

Hi. I'm in a similar position to you (and I am in Australia too - I can be reached via ausguy@cyberspace.org). I pray that the two of you can work things out and be happy together.