Dec 13th will be my 4 yr anniversary and our marriage is falling apart. 4 yrs ago when I was 18, I basically had a miniature breakdown after realizing that I was 18 and already married. Anyways, I started talking to some guy in another state online and I really feel stupid for doing it. Anyways, my husband caught this and I stopped communication with the guy and haven't done anything like that since then. I honestly don't know what was going on in my head at the time. I never had any contact with this guy other than chatting on yahoo, there was no actual cheating. My husband took it as me trying to leave him but within a few days he had let it go and forgave me (at least I thought so).

I have done nothing else to break his trust since then but less than a month ago he moved out and is now saying that because he can't trust me, we can't work things out. He tells me that there is nothing I can do to regain his trust. There has to be something I can do to rebuild trust between us. I just can't believe that 1 stupid mistake 4 yrs ago is ruining our marriage now.

I can't give up, I need to find a way to get him to trust me again.

Lord I pray that you put it in his heart, the love to truely forgive and trust me again.