Please Lord take jpuck's pain away. Give him a sign that You are with him always. Ease his suffering. Do whatever it takes Lord to stop the divorce.
Dear jpuck,
Our situations are so much alike. I have come to the realization that nothing or no one can help my husband except the Lord. He plans on divorcing me and there is not much I can do to stop it. The only thing in my control is to protect my children as much as possible. I don't want a divorce but then again I don't think I can stay married to the man he has become. I know that the Lord has our best interests at heart. Maybe God does not want us to have to suffer through what your wife and my husband are doing right now. You never know what the outcome will be. Only God knows. One thing you can be certain of......you are loved. Don't forget that. It will be okay. I know that it does not seem like it now but someday the pain will not be as bad. Each day that passes the suffering will lessen. Let it go and let God work it out with your wife. She has some things she needs to come to terms with. Same as my husband. I know that the things he has done, God will not look the other way. Just give it to God and let him take care of you and lead you through this. God Bless You!!! Amen!!

Lord please intervene and bless this marriage to be restored in Jesus powerful name, Amen!! "For sin shall not have dominion over you, for you are not under law but under grace." (Rom. 6:14)