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willow_whisper2001
willow_whisper2001 East Tennessee

My Marriage

I really don't know what else to do. I have prayed and prayed that things will change. I have already left twice thinking my husband would start appreciating the things I do. I have prayed that things would return to the way things were the first two years. But I guess it's like he said, "after two years, the honeymoon's over". I don't know why every relationship I have turns out this way. I try very hard to make everyone else happy, I try very hard to be a good person, I try very hard to be kind to every person I encounter. Because of my husband's negative attitude, my only son moved in with his father in August. And today he just attacked me with his negative attitude over his shirts being wrinkled. He works more hours than I do, but I still work full-time, and do the laundry, and take out the garbage, and do the dishes, and keep the house clean. I barely have any time to myself to just relax anymore. And I have a bad back, it hurts me daily. I have headaches a lot. All of this as a result of a tumor that nearly killed me two years ago. I am starting to sound like I am complaining. But he just kept going on about his wrinkled shirts, and didn't even tell me he loved me before he left for work today. I don't really know what else I can do to save my marriage. I have prayed to God to save it. I have prayed to God to help him be a kinder person. But he just continues to be negative all the time. I am usually a positive person, and I absorb negativity like a sponge. Please pray for my marriage. Pray that I will know the right thing to do. I do not want to be divorced again. I was divorced when I was 21. I waited to remarry until I was 33. Now I'm 36 and I really just don't want to have to start over. Because of my back I am limited to the amount of physical activity I can do in a job. It would be very difficult to support myself. And I love him. This is tearing me apart. Please pray for my marriage.

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bry
bry england

REVELATION11 verse 19 (NOT Chapter 13, as I first wrote. Sorry!) to read about the fate of the Ark of the Covenant. PLEASE see my comments on my prayer request "2008/"Year of the Gate"/Narrow and Straight in response to your response to me!!! Praying for your marriage. PLEASE pray for mine too. Thanks and may God bless you mightily throughout 2008. In Jesus' mighty name. Amen. bry xxx

bry
bry england

Hi willow. Have posted a L-O-N-G response to your last reply to my prayer for revival/year of the gate and thank you so much for your very interesting response (about visions.) Don't forget Jesus' warning "BEWARE NO ONE DECEIVES YOU!" (Matthew 24/Mark 13/Luke 21) illustrating that DECEPTION would be the HALLMARK of the so-called "end-times" (I prefer the phrase "in-between-times" i.e. in-between the 1st. and 2nd. advents of Christ. Deception is rife in EVERY area of life, at present, but it is false teachers/prophets and leaders christians MUST be aware of the most, if we are not to become a "foolish virgin" (Matthew 25.) The "oil" in the lamps of the virgins is, by the way, the Holy Spirit. MAKE SURE that you are FILLED with the Holy Spirit,every day, so that He can lead you into "ALL TRUTH." Then you cannot be deceived. God bless, preserve and keep you throughout 2008. Amen. bry xxx

bry
bry england

Hi willow whisper. I too wondered about the saying "2008 is the YEAR of the GATE" when I first heard it, so, MY conclusions need not be YOUR conclusions. Right? First, Jesus said "I AM THE GATE THAT LEADS TO EVERLASTING LIFE." Don't forget, He is the Good Shepherd, which makes us "sheep." The Bible says, in fact, "WE ALL, LIKE SHEEP HAVE GONE ASTRAY" and in Psalm 23 the sheep/shepherd comparison is also strong. So, when sheep are rounded up, the sheepdog drives them towards the GATE to the pen (where they usually DON'T want to go!) In the same way, we are usually reluctant to go God's Way. It takes an incredible amount of suffering before we see that this is actually the VERY BEST way for us to go! Like sheep, or what? Jesus meant that there is no other gateway EXCEPT Him, through which we can pass into eternal LIFE, which He confirmed when He said "I am THE Way, THE Truth, and THE Life. No one comes to the Father, EXCEPT through me." Jesus therefore is the ONLY WAY to Heaven/eternal life. Again the bible confirms this when it says "There is NO OTHER NAME (except Jesus) BY WHICH MEN/WOMEN can be saved." In the Bible 8 is the number of Jesus, so 2008 is, I suppose HIS year, numerically speaking. If it is His year, and He is the "GATE" (by HIS own Words) then this makes 2008 "The Year of the GATE (=Jesus)" Hope this is clear, but, as I say, you don't have to agree with my musings. (Please see my explanation of Bible numerology in the update on that prayer, and also the prayer above (recently added.) Hope this helps, and hope you got to read www.FathersLoveLetter.com and are getting a copy of "THE POWER OF POSITIVE THINKING" (see my last response to this prayer, below.) Loveandahug....bry xxx

SAM_J
SAM_J INDIA

DEAR JESUS,GIVE ALL THIS SISTERS DESIRES AS HER WISH AND BLESS HER RELATIONSHIP WITH HER HUSBAND,LET BOTH OF THEM UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER WELL LIVE PEACEFULLY LORD,
WE ASK THIS IN YOUR NAME,AMEN.

iluvdad
iluvdad Whitehall Michigan

LORD PLEASE HEAL THIS WOMAN FROM ALL BACK PAIN AND LORD LED HER TO WHERE SHE IS TO GO.PLEASE LORD SHE NEEDS HELP NOW.AMEN

bry
bry england

JAMES Chapter One verses 2-5. Not at all easy to "count it all joy" when we are being persecuted, especially by those who we expect to support us the most, but Jesus did warn us that "Your enemies will be of your own household." Mine certainly are, which is why I could identify so stongly with your situation. Have you seen www. FathersLoveLetter.com It's life-changing!!! Also I have benefited enormously from practising the principles of "THE POWER OF POSITIVE THINKING" by Norman Vincent Peale. How about some hands-on healing prayer for your back, from "the elders" of your church, along with annointing with oil? This is what St. Paul told us we should do, when in physical affliction. He should have known, he was whipped for his faith, imprisoned, shipwrecked, stoned more than once, and mocked on innumerable occasions, yet he counted all these "light afflictions" "pure joy" because he always compared them to the "eternal Glory" to which he was headed. He lived his life in "the light of eternity." So should we also try to do, but, as I said at the beginning....."Not easy!" I pray this may somehow help and encourage you. In Jesus' mighty name. Amen In christian Love from Bryan (a long-term henpecked husband!!!) xxx

PRINCESSOFPEACE77

LOVE CAN CONQURE ANY THING. LORD IN HEAVEN I PRAY THAT YOU WILL GIVE WILLOWWHISPER THE STRENGHT SHE NEED TO GO THROUGH THIS ORDEAL. FATHER IN THE NAME OF JESUS I LIFT UP HER HUSBAND TO YOU, FATHER I ASK THAT YOU TOUCH HIM WITH YOUR SPIRIT, SATURATE HIM WITH YOUR PRCIOUS HOLY BLOOD. FATHER WE BIND UP ALL NEGATIVE,HATRED,WORDS THAT ARE SAID IN THIS MARRIAGE, AND WE LOOSE POSITIVE THINGS, LOVE,COMPASSION,PEACE AND HEALING. LORD I ASK THAT YOUI RESTORE THIS MARRIAGE, BRING THEM BACK TOGETHER AS ONE. TEACH THEM HOW TO LOVE ONE ANOTHER. OPEN UO THE DOOR OF COMMUNICATION. LORD I PRAY YOU WILL GIVE THEM THE WISDOM AND THE KNOWLEDGE AND UNDERSTANDING ON HOW TO BE A GOOD WIFE AND A GOOD HUSBAND. TEACH THE HUSBAND HOW TO BE THE HEAD OF THE HOUSEHOLD.HOW TO ENCOURAGE AND NOT TEAR DOWN. IN JESUS NAME . AMEN