im a single mother of two little girls. my real mother was not their for me growing up so my grandmother ( A VERY STRONG PRAYER WARRIOR) kept me in line. i have been threw alot of things and i know now that a lot of it was my fault. i have had alot of jobs and now i have found a job that im really good at sales and within 6 months of me working both stores in memphis and west memphis, ar. i got a promotion. since than i have came across alot of problems. the young ladys want me gone because of me making them work and not letting them ride the clock. and do what ever they please. i am a hard working woman and i really need to inprove my skills because i have really been trying to be a people pleaser but i dont want to be hard on anyone but i want to go further in the company one day. i really do have a soft spot for people and i sometimes let people run over me. and when i take action people think that im doing wrong. what do i do ???????????? i dont need their friendship but i dont want them to hate me either. so i really do not want to be ms. mean shift leader. but i do want respect. the more they complain on me to the boss the more they make me look bad the things that complain on me about are really pattie. so please pray that GOD pulls me threw this. really need help