Heavenly father hear the cry of Alicia, and take away this spirit of dispair and frustrations, Lord make hearts render unto your Love, Lord it is not your desire for us to be alone, Lord reclaim this marriage and make it new, bring hearts together Lord and remove the devourer from making this marraige one sided, give bac Lord restoration and, peace and love together in unison, this I pray In Jesus Name. Psalms 53, 55,9, 10.

Dear Lord, please show Alicia Your divine plan for her life. Guide her every footstep. And may Your will be done. Amen.

"Our Heavenly Father, thank you for your unconditional love. I pray that Alicia will be given the strength to press forward dear Lord. It is you dear Lord that will make a change in her husband's heart. I pray that she will not give up and that she continues to pray and meditate on your words dear Lord. You know what is going on in each of their hearts. Lord, I have seen you make changes in my own husband's heart and I know that you will do the same to Alicia's husband's heart. I pray that she turns this situation over to you completely and that you will guide her in every encounter that she has with her husband. I believe with faith and prayer and thanksgiving that you will restore their marriage. I pray for Alicia to have peace of heart and peace of mind and hope for a renewed relationship. In your most holy and honorable name, I pray for hearts to be changed, for faith to increase, for love to unite and an everlasting Godly relationship to emerge Amen."

Lord, we thank you for Alicia. She is special. Your word says in (Psalm 139:13-14) "You created my inmost being. You knit me together in my mother's womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made." Take heart dear Alicia, keep praying,but let peace come into your heart and know that God will work on your husband. Lord, I pray for Alicia, cememt their marriage through you. I pray that you bring someone in her husband's life to help him appreciate his wife and marriage. Your word also states: Hebrews 10:23- Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess for He who promised is faithful." Alicia, take hope and inspiration from His word and He will keep you steadfast and at peace of heart. It might help to go to Lifeway.com, they have marraige weekends that you and your husband can attend. I will be praying for you through all this. in Jesus name. Amen.

My dear sister have Patience.

Our most gracious and attentive Lord, help us to remember that you move in your time, knowing as only you know the perfect time and the perfect way to answer our prayers. The flower begins at seed—a seed we neither see nor understand. And gradually the seed sprouts, still deep within the damp earth, hidden from our vision. We may be tempted to believe it is not growing, and yet if we dig it up to calm our doubts, we will damage it and stunt its full blossom. Help us to be ever mindful, dear Father, that you have planted the seeds of peace for your children. Help us to continue to walk with you and know you more, growing ever stronger in our faith that what you have promised you will do, even when we do not yet have the physical evidence we seek.

My Lord, with childlike confidence and trust in You love. Your child Alicia Sanchez turn to You asking that you look upon her with mercy to relieve the suffering and anguish which is now such a great part of her life. Most specially she ask for your your presence and that her husband have a change of heart and be supportive of her. Help her find the way to a happy and purposeful life so that she might reflect Your kind and loving ways to others. Amen.

We all have some of those days. There are days I have come close to giving up, but He never let's me :)

Look to the Lord, seek His face. You can count on Him. God uses these times to work on us, our relationship with Him, and the things we need to do to become closer to Him. He showed me the things that I needed to change in me, how to find my own happiness, and put Him first. Don't give up, it is never over until God says it is. Here is something that made a difference in how I handle things now, remind yourself that your circumstances are not the outcome, and the outcome is not yours but is God's :) I was like you husband, very self centered, but the Lord changed me, and I thank Him for it everyday.

I pray that Lord convicts each of your hearts of the things He wants you to see and to change, in order to become closer to Him. I pray that you will put the Lord first in your lives and focus on that realtionship. I pray that both of your hearts will be touched and see that love is a choice and not a feeling. I pray that this marriage wil be healed and restored to what You want it to be Lord.
In the name of Jesus I pray.

There are a couple of books that are very good... the 5 love languages, and Love & Respect.

here is a link to a great message about marriage http://www.lakepointe.org/Global/OnlineMessage/message_012008.aspx (this is an online video)

http://www.lakepointe.org/Global/OnlineMessage/Media/Audio_012008.mp3 (audio version)

Peace and God Bless

Father God who are our all in all, please hear the plead of my dear sister. Grant her peace in her home and please touch her husband. Open the lines of communications again and you be the strength that is needed to clear all things that come to destroy this marriage up. Please, in Jesus' name -- Amen

Jesus please lift this weary woman and take away her pain. I pray that you could guide her to some help in sorting out the best options in her situation. Jesus you do not intend for her to miserable so please show her how to cope and deal with this situation even if it means not being with this husband. I pray that you can show her peace and happines, in Jesus precious name I pray amen

Father, I lift this prayer up for alicia. Bless her marriage with love and unity. Transform this husbands mind into thinking good thoughts about his marriage. Guide him to the right path by shinning Your light brightly so he can find the way. Give alicia the strength to keep moving forward and to never give up. Amen

Dear Alicia,
I just heard the sermon of Joel Osteen.com he said that we cannot change other people it's only God can ...so give it up and jsut look of the things you see him before you meet him...you marry him and if he doesn't want to you can't force him...Live like waht God wants you to live...loosen up so you can have more time for your self and your kids...then keep praying for him....you'll never know he will admire you from not nagging him and not bothering him...love him for who he is....and things work together for good. and so we back you up too in prayers....Just keep on letting him know that you love him so much and that you support him to what he wants to do....but still back it up with prayers too ...Jesus loves you

Father I ask that Alicia be given strength, renewal of her mind, a sharp focus on you that all things will work together for her good, send earthen vessels, a word to keep running this race, renew a right spirit in her husband, change his heart, show him what you want him to do and be, help him to appreciate the wife he has and how blessed he could be to treat her the way he should, to take the selfishness away from him in Jesus name amen.

Dear Precious Alicia, many of us are exactly where you are right now, but I have to say, reread your wedding vows, and read GOD's words. I have cried so many tears, begging The Lord to just bring some kind of resolution to this situation, and the only thing I can do is remain committed to my part of our marriage. Valentine's Day will make it exactly one year since my husband left, and I have been attacked spiritually, emotionally, physically, verbally and financially by the enemy, but I will not turn away from The Lord because of this. I know HE has a plan, I know HE hates divorce, I know, HE is not finished with this marriage yet. Stop focusing on what your husband is doing, and focus on The Lord. Become a gentle and quiet spirit, and stop asking or expecting your husband to do things. Just continue to do your part. And have faith that you will receive the fruit of your labors. I am still a baby Christian, however, I am learning to be still, continue praying, and trust The Lord for all the outcome.

A Standers Affirmation
I AM STANDING FOR THE HEALING OF MY MARRIAGE!... I will not give up,
give in, give out or give over 'til that healing takes place. I made a vow, I said the words,
I gave the pledge, I gave a ring, I took a ring, I gave myself, I trusted GOD, and said the
words, and meant the words... in sickness and in health, in sorrow and in joy, for better or
for worse, for richer or for poorer, in good times and in bad...so I am standing NOW, and
will not sit down, let down, slow down, calm down, fall down, look down or be down 'til
the breakdown is torn down!
I refuse to put my eyes on outward circumstances, or listen to prophets of doom, or buy
into what is trendy, worldly, popular, convenient, easy, quick, thrifty, or advantageous...
nor will I settle for a cheap imitation of God's real thing, nor will I seek to lower God's
standard, twist God's will, rewrite God's word, violate God's covenant, or accept what
God hates, namely divorce!
In a world of filth, I will stay pure; surrounded by lies I will speak the truth; where
hopelessness abounds, I will hope in God: where revenge is easier, I will bless instead of
curse; and where the odds are stacked against me, I will trust in God's faithfulness.
I am a STANDER, and I will not acquiesce, compromise, quarrel or quit.. I have made
the choice, set my face, entered the race, believed the Word, and trusted God for all the
outcome.
I will allow neither the reaction of my spouse, nor the urging of my friends, nor the
advice of my loved ones, nor economic hardship, nor the prompting of the devil to make
me let up, slow up, blow up, or give up 'til my marriage is healed.
- Author Unknown

heavenly father we thank you and praise you for the wonderful things that you promise us. your holy word says that if we call out - you will show us great things that we do not know.

we are asking for healing and restoration in this marriage and in alicias life. uplift her and encourage her thru the holy spirit. envelop her in your loving arms and let her feel your presence.

we ask that you would touch her and restore her faith and all that she is lacking.

bless and find favor lord god. please send godly friends and influences that will walk beside her, pray with and help to seek your will and path in her life.

we give it to you. we can't make it thru a single day without you. every heartbeat, every breath dear lord is a precious gift from you and we thank you.

it is in jesus precious name we pray. amen

1 Timothy 2:5

Lord and Lady restore this marriage completely and inspire Alicia and her love with a new romantic spark in their lives, let them once again find a way to each other and have wonderful future together, as they deserve to have. remove all evil influences from them and block all evil people and energy from entering their holy love. May this resttoration happen before Valentines day. Blessings