Still no word if the cancer is spread or not. Please EVERYONE, pray for the cancer not to have spread. I don't want my children not to grow-up without an Earthly father. If the cancer has spread, my daughter will blame me for this too....Thank you.

Today my ex-husband had surgery. My daughter doesn't tell me anything, I happened to over-hear her conversation. I couldn't hear the info I needed to really give anyone a true update. I am not even supposed to know what is going at all.

THANK YOU JESUS!!!! THANK YOU GOD!!!!

My ex-husband's cancer did not spread. My daughter said the surgeon's got it all. He had Stage 3 Melanoma and not 4 as my daughter originally thought! HE had 6 of 11 lymph nodes removed. Please pray that it doesn't spread and he can continue to watch his children grow up.

He and I don't talk at all because there are too many wounds yet to heal. I don't wish him any harm, just let me live my life and I will let him live his.

PLEASE PRAY FOR THE CANCER NOT TO SPREAD! For my kids sake... and also his daughter from another relationship and his granddaughter.

Thank you for all who have prayed for this and please don't stop now!

Now I am unsure what is going on with my ex-husbands cancer. I got a call from his neice and she never heard that it was stage 3, so I am at a loss for words.

PLEASE EVERYONE PRAY FOR MY EX-HUSBANDS' FULL RECOVERY! Thank you!

PLEASE continue to pray that my ex-husband. I hear bit and pieces of information and pray for his recovery. He just turned 68 years old last week. I am 25 years younger than he is. His children need him. I want him to be well. He and I don't talk, but I have never wished this on him. He has always been a hard worker and good fathers to his children. Sure there could be improvements, but I feel he is doing the best he can and has softened with the children since the divorce. The children are son, 19 years old. Casey 18, which some of you have prayed for. My daughter 15, which some of you have also prayed for. He also has an adult daughter that lives in another state, and a grandchild. I am feeling that the divorced has caused this cancer and his niece told me that is what he feels. I don't know what to think, I tried for over 20 years to make things work, but could no longer be controlled and emotionally torn down all the time, again, I wish no harm to him, only that he respects my space, now that we are no longer living together. I have nightmares and panic attacks from that relationship and the healing process that goes along with it.

Please pray for my ex-husband to recover from this surgery and to be TOTALLY CANCER FREE! He doesn't know that I pray for him....

My daughter made a comment that her dad is crippled? Maybe he is sore from his surgery and walking with a limp? Not sure what is going on with him. I am feeling heavy guilt for the divorce, but couldn't be in a controlling environment any more.

Every time she says something pertaining to her dads condition, I go numb and this time I am having pain in my chest. I am only 43 years-old. Please CONTINUE TO pray for my ex-husband to recover from this surgery and to be TOTALLY CANCER FREE! He doesn't know that I pray for him....

My daughter told me my ex-husband is in pain around one of surgery sites. He is going to the hospital!!!! PLEASE PRAY THAT WHATEVER IS GOING ON IS NOTHING MORE THAN A MINOR SET BACK, AND HE WILL BE SOON FULLY RECOVERED!!!! My daughter is scared about losing her dad!!! Please pray for his health!!! I need more prayers than ever before!!!!! I never wanted this to happen to him, no matter what the circumstances were regarding the divorce. PLEASE EVERYONE PRAY!!!!!! His name is Gary and he lives in a rural part of California. I AM AT MY WITS END!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am also not sure if he believes in God. I know through God and prayer he can be healed. I am scared for my children!!!! They need their dad!!!!! I am so worried. Please pray!