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codermd
codermd luling, louisiana

Husband

My request seems so small compared to some of the prayer request that are online. My prayer request is for my husband. He is so verbally abusive to me and blames me for everything that happens. From the water bill being so high........to how much money he lost at the casino. I don't know what else to do, but have others know about my situation and allow the power of prayer to intervene. My faith in GOD and JESUS is great, however, there are times when it gets tough. But, I continue the faith in my higher GOD and stand firm in my trust in HIM. Thank you for this opportunity to present this request to you, so that it will ease the turmoil and bring peace to my household. Thank you, very much and GOD bless each and everyone of you that reads this.

Update - 2 months ago:

Just want to say that my husband woke up this morning and apologized for his behaviour yesterday. However, this doesn't make the problem he has go away. But, it's a start. I'm encouraging everyone to pray that he would join me in church and to realize that this is an area in which we both need to be. I'm so thankful to each and everyone of you for responding to my request and I will continue to go on site to help others as well. GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU ON THIS SITE.

Update - about 1 month ago:

I want to thank all of you that responded to my prayer request and to update you on this situation. I had to go through the toughest time of my life and THANK GOD that all is okay, there is still a long way to go. But we are making progress and realize that we have to give it to GOD completely, before HE starts working in our marriage. We all fall short in this area and I know that my husband is trying to fight off satan. "I know that we can do all things in CHRIST who strenghtens us". I'm continue to stand firm in HIM and I truly am thankful that GOD has heard my cry. And even though I can see some change my continued trust in OUR GOD is never ceasing. May GOD pour out HIS favor on each and everyone of you, from HIS storehouse of abundance. These things I ask in JESUS name, AMEN!

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sobriety08

i pray for codermd keep the faith and keep helping others this to shall pass. be thankfull for what you got and jesus will continue to answer you prayes. may you be blessed. amen

betty91946
betty91946 louisiana

Codermd,
Several years ago a friend of my oldest sister had problems with her marriage similar to our husbands.She grew daily in the Lord,as he grew more worldly.He was drinking all the time and started fights with her constantly.One day he really got out of control and was cussing her without relief.She stood before him,silently praying to God to help her with stand the mental abuse.She said these words came to her and she replied to her husband "You don't like me very much right now,do you".She said he was so taken off gruard at her response,drunk as he was,as she left no room for him to say anything else.Though he never changed she grew in the understanding of how to be at peace with him as her choice was to remain in her marriage.He has since passed away,and she continues helping others in her then situation.Inner peace is the key to endurance.It takes a lot to develope that gift as we as humans are often too hurt or emotional and we forget our source of peace when satan's spirits attack us mentally.I pray that everyone in this area of need in their lives will pray in unity that we too will grow in the Lord enough to rest in Him as the storms blow.He is our light and our guidence.In Jesus name I pray for your husband that he too will find that same peace,as God loves him so very much.Believing and trusting in that divine love I am praying for him.

somaiah
somaiah hyd

praise the lord ..sister in bible..''ask,and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock,and it will be opened to you;(matthew 7:7) to u amen

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Bobbijo
Bobbijo Charlotte,N.C

When i saw your prayer request I had to stop.Please dont let noone obbuse you for no reason.I am sure there is someone who is close to you that has told you this.You are a child of the most high God and that my sister is a blessing.If you have female children you are teaching them that this is aceptableand if you have male children you are teaching them that its okay to treat someone this way.Pleaseput your children first and I wil pray for you to seek understanding and the most high blessings from our God who is the most merciful

RSchumacher
RSchumacher Green Bay

Dear Lord , Soften this mans heart and show him the love you gave him. And give this woman protection from harm. In Jesus name Amen

anim2007
anim2007 Finland

Dear sister, I hope you are allright. Trust God, he can change your husban's heart. I am happy that you are staying strong and keep your hope and trust in God, even the devil tries to press you down and uses your husband as the vapen.
Lord God place your power, lovung hands upon this sister, fill her heart with your love, power, faith and strength. Lord keep her close to you and guide her everyday and give her strength and wisdom to face all the hard situations and words. Lord change the hear of her husband, Lord make him for a new man, save his soul, pull him close to you. Lord help him realize that to hear your word and take you into his heart will help him to kep the enemy away, and thathe can reach real happiness and satisfaction in his life. Lord let him see the love his wife has for him and that you Lord are the source of that love.
Lord help this couple to find understand and love for each others. Thank you Lord. Praise to your name. In Jesus name I pray. Amen

betty91946
betty91946 louisiana

Codermd
Reading your prayer request was like reading my own words.Never have I heard my own heart so clearly though another persons need.Instead od dewelling on the situation,we are going to pray our way through.I will be your special prayer partner if you like.No matter I will keep you in my every prayer.I also live in Louisiana.I want to share something I just read.I pray we can see good out of every word.
John15:1-2 Niv "I am the vine,and my Father is the gardener.He cuts off every branch that does not bear fruit;WHILE every branch that DOES bear fruit,He prunes so it will be even more fruitful."Patience is the fruit most important in your character.Joyful hope brings strenght to our character and faithful prayer builds our relationship with God.Let us praise the Lord for our situations,and ask that He use this to build us up,as we pray for the healing of our husband's anger problems.We will grow stronger and wiser.

Ms_Sudhaa
Ms_Sudhaa India

Dear Father i pray my loving sister's husband. I pray that the sting in his words be removed and replaced by kind and loving words. I pray that he takes responsibility for his actions and have the wisdom to change his ways to be a better man. II ask for this in Jesus name.
Amen

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Harley Rider

lord bless this dear soul and her marriage. touch the heart of this husband and show him his harshness and that it is hurting his wife so much.

take these prayers and concerns lord. allow the holy spirit to work in their hearts and minds. keep them strong please, and fight for them so the enemy will not win.

thank you jesus for taking our sins and paying for them on the cross. it is in your holy name we pray.

god bless you dear soul! let us know how you are doing.

FirstJohn51415
FirstJohn51415 Weldon Spring, Mo

Dear God I pray that you move on the husband...convict him and lead him to repent of sins against his wife. I pray that he opens his heart to listen to the Lord..and learn how to love his wife like Christ loves the church. I pray that he starts to seek the Lord out in his life and that he joins his wife in church. I also pray that he stops verbally abusing his wife. Please heal and restore this marriage Dear Lord..In Jesus name I pray..amen

galcoach

I will pray for you. I was married to someone like that for 24 years. It finally ended because it takes two people to make a marriage work and in my case there was only one. I pray for you that your husband's heart softens and is convicted by the Lord. I pray that your husband will want to work with you and with God to make things better. Good Luck and God Bless.

celleg
celleg philippines

Dear Lord, I thank thee for blessing this site with codermd who's prayer will always be helping those in pain, in distress, hopeless and those who is need to be in contact with You.

Please continue to give her a household filled with love, harmony and good health so that she may continue to serve others in Your name. Amen.

555lady
555lady Ga

I pray that your husband will stop the abuse. I pray that he will deal with his anger, and stop. I pray that you have the strength to deal with this. I know he will change I pray that he does.

codermd - 2 months ago: Thank you, I know nothing is to great for GOD and I'm praying for this to get better. I'm a firm believer in CHRIST and with HIM I can do all things, for HE strengthens me. Thanks again, and may GOD bless you and your household....in JESUS name I pray. AMEN.
faydralove
faydralove long Island New york

Dear codermd;There is no request to small and yours is not small at all ifact it is very big,you are in an abusive relationship,wheather it be verbal or physical it is abusive,Your husband has a lot of issues and he is misdirecting his anger,and you should not allow yourself to be treated this way,so long as you continue to stay there without getting help it will not get better,unless he gets the help he needs.to many of these cases have turned out not good,you need to speak to someome right away.I am happy your faith is strong and keep praying to the lord,but in the same time you need to get help,people need to teach people how to treat them, and this is very unhealthy for you,it can make you physically ill,not to say how it lowers your self esteem terribely, you are a child of God this is your life to, and you owe it to yourself to be happy,If you are afriad don't be, there are many places that will help you,and if you love this man,you need to fix this and gain back the respect you deserve,then you can help him or not, but you need to talk to someone please,I will keep you both in my prayers,
God Bless You
Debbiexx

codermd - 2 months ago: I want to say thanks to you as well. I really do appreciate your kindness and taking the time to pray for us. I know that I need to get some help and I will with my church. I been struggling with this for awhile and now that I found this site I'm thankful how GOD has used this site to bring his servants together. May GOD bless and keep your family safe and secure, under HIS wings. MUCH LOVE, these things I pray for you and yours........in JESUS name AMEN.
Sam756
Sam756 Houston, TX

I stand in agreement, Lord bless our Brother to be set free from the bondages of the enemy. Father intervene in this situaiton and bless all to be well in Jesus powerful name, Amen!!