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rp44_ Bristol, RI

Old Relationship/Years ago

I ran into an old boyfriend whom I haven't seen for 10 years or more. I am 45 years old. I dated him steady when I was 20 yrs. old for 2 years (1983 to 1985)and we got back together a lot for the next 11 years or so. He asked me to marry him in 1994 and I wanted to marry him but there was something more I wanted him to show me because of our immaturity back then. It was a total accident that we bumped into one another..I thought he was in florida and he thought I was still in Texas. Seeing him helped me heal faster from my abuser. I realize how gentle, kind, peaceful and caring this guy was. Throughout the years I have thought of him often and I often miss him. His family and my family had been friends forever. (1983 up to even now),. His sister still calls me. We are alike in that we are both easy going and easily taken advantage of. People always told us that we look like brother and sister and that we act the same. His name is John. The only difference is that I have more backbone and won't allow myself to be controlled forever. We are not opposites at all..we are very similar. Anyway, after seeing him by accident, I realize I love this man more than anything in the world. I have missed him so much and have learned to cope with it. Seeing him brought back so much pain. My prayer for him and for I is that John and I's relationship will be restored and if it has always been GODs perfect will for us to be together, that our relationship will be restored this year. No matter what I will always love this man untill the day I die. He was in my life for a long time and I always loved him...we were young and immature and we made the same type of foolish decisions . John asked for my number and called me the very next day. I just want restoration for all the devil stole as long as it was GODs perfect will for my life. I am very sad because I love him so much and cannot picture life without him. But if fate is for us..Great! Only God knows..hopefully...I miss and love him so much. (Rhonda and John)

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LivinInchrist

Love is patient, love is kind, love bears all things...
God our Father, grant mercy upon this couple and clearly show them what this relationship is meant to be. I ask this in Jesus' name, through the intercession of the Blessed Virgin Mary, who prompted Jesus to perform his first miracle at the wedding in Cana. Amen

tristan
tristan Houston, TX

Dear rp44,
I pray the Lord give you and John constant guidance and blessings. This meeting is a great sign. Continue to pray so that the Lord will help you and John develop a renewed relationship. The fact that he called you is terrific. God is shining a light for you. Do not be sad - think of fun and wonderful ways that you and John can enjoy each other's company. You are starting a new adventure. We pray in Jesus' name. Amen.

howardsgirl
howardsgirl Japan

May the Lord show both of you the right way to go.

celleg
celleg philippines

Rhonda, most of the time when we feel alone and sad and fate brings us back with our old flame we thought we are in love again. If this is the case then please do pray for God to be with you both on a start of this relationship.

However you must also see to it that it is not only because you felt alone and sad that you want to be with John. Love is patient .. If it is so God's will then offer this new found love with John to the Lord and He will tell you the next thing to do...

With this I pray with you and John...

Lord, You invite all who are burdened to come to You. Allow your healing hand to heal Rhonda and John. Touch their souls with Your compassion for others. Touch their hearts with Your courage and infinite love for all. Touch their minds with Your wisdom, that their mouths may always proclaim Your praise. Teach them to reach out to You in their need, and help them to lead others to You by their example. Most loving Heart of Jesus, bring them health in body and spirit that they may serve You with all their strength. Touch gently this lives which You have created, now and forever. Amen.

sandrella
sandrella canada

Lord, I ask that you bless this family to be with your healing hand - that they are able to be a support to each other through these difficult times and that the next scan is clear.
in Jesus name amen
from sandy

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