Dear God as we face this crucial challenge and as we are on the verge of going our separate ways. God if it is not your will that we are together any longer then please grant us the strength and the wisdom to part with dignity and understanding for each other. god you are making my life whole again while I am being removed from those whom I love dearly. God i know you have a message and a plan in all of this and i pray that your plan may unfold and that i may understand what it is you are trying to tell us. God i pray that we may be able to cherish the love we had for each other and make the lives of our children happy and fullfilled even in these trying times. God give me strength wisdom and understanding. And thank you for all the help and answered prayers. Amen