My dear friends, you know that I love Neenu as if she was my own flesh-and-blood daughter - though she is far away and we have never met. Yesterday she wrote me that J. sent her a short email to tell that "a proposal came" and he already met the woman (unknown to him until yesterday! Indian trandition!!! but horoscope and caste match - SO MUCH ABOUT LOVE!!!) so he said he will keep Neenu in his memory as a "good supporting friend"...J's wedding-day is almost fixed. Neenu is dying inside and keeps thinking about an accident which would take her life but she would feel happy in the last moment knowing that she dies soon! And I am so far from her, without being able to help her, I cannot even comfort my little tender-hearted girl, I can only pray for her. She stopped sending emails, her mobile is turned off - I am so scared!!! This beautiful child will be 25 years old in March 8th, on Women's Day!!! Please my sisters and brothers, pray for our dear little sister to overcome this unbearable pain! Jayan is her first love - she lives at home "as if she was closed in a cage" as she put it: she cannot go anywhere, her father often yells and shouts at her and her mother. They are intimidated by his aggressivity all the time. Neenu's life is an absolutely hopeless nightmare! J. wanted her to "register for marriage" half a year ago without her father's consent but she refused it. Now Neenu knows that she could never have her father's consent (even I tried to convince her father a few months ago, calling him on phone) because he is a stubborn, stone-hearted man who only thinks of "MONEY"... PLEASE PRAY FOR LITTLE NINU!!! PLEASE GO TO HER PAGE AND WRITE HER, OR SEND YOUR KIND WORDS TO MY REQUEST! PLEASE LIT CANDLES FOR HER SAD SOUL TO LIGHTEN HER UP! Please, my friends, express your outpouring empathy to this innocent and pure-hearted young girl who is in love with J. from top to toe! God bless her and give her strength to survive this profound disappointment in her parents and in her first love! Thank you so much for your care and support on Neenu's behalf! She prays for everybody on this site just like I do! Thank you Lord for standing beside Neenu - she has nobody but You on her cloddy path... I still pray for a miracle to happen because Your ways are inscrutable, Heavenly Father. Anything is possible...amen... Brigu-umma to Neenu...
UPDATE: MAY 1st / 2008
My dear Neenu made a new profile page, her new username is archana83 but has "no item". Since I couldn't send her response, I decided to copy her request from the new profile page for you to read it and to pray for this innocent lovely girl to have good luck, happy marriage, and successful studies! All the Christian and Hindu Gods bless you, dear little Ninocska, my adopted Indian daughter, we all pray for you and wish you all the best!!
Now I paste Neenu's own words here for you to read and pray for her and for her loved-ones:
"i am girl who cried a lot and prayed a lot in this for my inner wish, which is cruely rejected by my parents.i cried a lot in this site and lot of people prayed for me,including my dear brigita..still it didn't worked out.i prayed to give strength to face everything to get mental courage.and i received it about 75%.and now my marriage is going to fix, and i am praying to make us to love sincerely and happily till life end and praying for my old love, which was rejected by my parents, because of lack of finance and education and not making his parents came to my house to propose for him was the reason for rejection for my love, and i am praying this occassion to give him a good job and good wife and be happy and sincere till life end.with God blessing we didn't done any mistake, we only cared each other our heart, but rejected by God and parents..i pray to you God to bless him and his family , and all,in my family my future husband family, and all people in this pray site and all my friends and their family.pray for my lovely amma brigita, whom i met in this site, who gave me strength to face everything, bless her for a good life partner immediately, please bless my parents to be healthy and happy, bless my sister to cure her back pain, asthma,psycatric treatments..please bless us God"

Neenu asked me to pass her thanks on you for the beautiful prayers sent to soothe her pain. She would like if you didn't stop praying for the uplift of her wounded heart! Your prayers are balm to Neenu's pain because they prove that she is not abandonned because we are here for her...Thank you for that!
Jayan's proposal was dropped but Neenu's parents unfortunately found two "proposal-guys" again, one of whom will visit Neenu this Sunday, on March 30... Neenu tries to be hard like a stone, without emotions in order to pull herself through this "SALE"-business but she is numb as if she had been in the cold for too long. No happiness in her young life. But still Neenu has a plan: she wants to find a job outside of Kerala after June (when she has to take an exam) as to become free from the family terror. She wouldn't want to marry anyone without her parents' consent, or to lead an indecent life, she only wants to be HERSELF, to find friends and her purpose in life which is not being forcefully sold on the "meat-market" called marriage-proposal. Please pray for the success of Neenu's plan! She is so thankful for every prayer from you, my friends! This place is the only one she can hope to get support because of her isolation at home... God bless you all for your kindness!
My lovely Ninocska received another proposal, and it seems to be acceptable for everyone, including Neenu! The guy is educated, nice, polite and calm - he didn't look at Neenu from top to toe (neither his parents did) as if she was a "merchandise for sale", but he treated her with reverence and appreciation - he honestly liked what (WHOM!) he saw and was nice to Ninu. Now Neenu's parents make an "inquiry" into the circumstances of the family to see the background of this 28 years old young man. Neenu feels quite comfortable about it - I think it was necessary for her to get to know Jayan and to receive his cruel letter about HIS proposal. (which was dropped by the girl, NOT by him!) So she has a much more clear picture what to look for in a future husband and this guy pleased her... Pray for our lovely Neenu to find her happiness with this man!!! Somehow I feel this proposal very promising. Today is the feast of Hindu New Year when Hindus celebrate Krishna at lavish and joyful festivals of Vishu. To join it, I put a picture here about Krishna (Krishna holding Govardhan hill)... God bless Neenu abundantly!
UPDATE - May 1st / 2008
My dear little Neenu made a new profile page under the username of archana83 but she didn't post request so her profile page has "no item". Since I couldn't send her response, I decided to copy her request from the profile page for you, my dear friends. Let's pray together for this lovely innocent girl to have a very happy marriage and a great success in her studies! My sweet adopted Indian daughter, all the Christian and Hindu Gods bless you and watch over your life with divine love and care! We all pray for you and for your loved-ones here and wish you GOoD LUCK, tender-hearted beautiful Ninocska!
I paste Neenu's own words below:
"i am girl who cried a lot and prayed a lot in this for my inner wish, which is cruely rejected by my parents.i cried a lot in this site and lot of people prayed for me,including my dear brigita..still it didn't worked out.i prayed to give strength to face everything to get mental courage.and i received it about 75%.and now my marriage is going to fix, and i am praying to make us to love sincerely and happily till life end and praying for my old love, which was rejected by my parents, because of lack of finance and education and not making his parents came to my house to propose for him was the reason for rejection for my love, and i am praying this occassion to give him a good job and good wife and be happy and sincere till life end.with God blessing we didn't done any mistake, we only cared each other our heart, but rejected by God and parents..i pray to you God to bless him and his family , and all,in my family my future husband family, and all people in this pray site and all my friends and their family.pray for my lovely amma brigita, whom i met in this site, who gave me strength to face everything, bless her for a good life partner immediately, please bless my parents to be healthy and happy, bless my sister to cure her back pain, asthma,psycatric treatments..please bless us God"
Neenu asks You, friends, to pray for her SUCCESSFUL exam which will be held on May 12. Neenu has so many things going on in her life right now that she had neither time nor mood to study. Her gonnabe (="future"? do I use the correct words?) husband's family visited Neenu last weekend, two days later ten members of Neenu's family came to her house, she also had a trip to her mother's birthplace, so she had no chance to prepare for the exam. But the result of this exam is very important so Ninu really needs your prayer-support!!! Please folks pray for her! Thanks a lot on Neenu's behalf!
Hi Brig..i was away from prayabout for more than a month, i guess...thus i cudn't come across this request of yours on time .. I sense the pain and terror my sis neenu had gone thru in life..and i'm sure god won't let her down again..when he closes one door towards her many other doors ...get opened around her.. only thing is that she has to choose the right door thru which she has to enter....I'm glad that you have not left prayabout.. and you are back..Welcome home!! i'm also neenu's age.. so HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!do keep in touch
Bri, I pray that Neenu Will be healthy and happy, and that God will bless her in all areas of her life, I have empathy for her sister, I plead the blood of the man with the nail scarred hands for all of you, Jesus the one and only, LOVEC~
Awesome. Wishing them luck.
Hey Bri,
How are you?
I have not talkin to you in forever =(
I am doing good.
Have you heard of any updates i had?
Well, keep in touch~April
you will continue to be in my daily prayers =)
DEAR GOD,
PLEASE RESCUE LITTLE NEENU AND BRING HER THE LOVE OF HER LIFE, AMEN.
DEAR FRIEND I MISSED U ALOT RAHUL ALSO GRATEFUL TO U. HOPE FOR D BEST..POOJA
Dear bkbrig: Thank you for your loving words for Joe Joe and prayers,also for the web site I will surely look into it,I pray all is well with you,My prayers are with your son that he does very well in school, God Bless You
Debbie xoxoxo
Dear Heavenly father I lift this prayer up to you with our sister.
I pray you may hold this child in your loving hands and set her free of all things holding her. I pray you send her the blessings she seeks and guide her in the path you have set for her. I pray you send her the happiest and joy all your children seek. This in Jesus name I pray Amen
I PRAY GOD WILL BLESS, HEAL, AND PROTECT YOU AND ALL YOUR LOVED ONES. MAY HE ANSWER ALL YOUR PRAYER NEEDS. IN JESUS NAME I PRAY. AMEN. YOUR FRIEND TERESA
Lord I am still coming to you and asking that you help my dear sister. Lord please if she cant be with the man of her life find another one for her that will be as the love of her life was. In Jesus name I pray Amen
Thank you, I am doing much better. God bless you.
dear bk brig ...
how r u my sweet friend ?????....i must say that that ur heart is full of love who always care for others and praying for others , i m so blessed to b friends with u ...bkbrig ..u know we hav tried each n everything ..earlier i was the paid member in bhart matrimony.com . www.shaadi.com and many more site ...u know my parents hav spend a lot of money on these site ..but nothing happened ..we also had given the add in the news papper fore 4 or 5 times but all in vain .he people dont take it seriously ...all the boys are frauds ..they are just doing a time pass with these girls ...thats y now i dont like to search here ..i hav left each n everything on god ..my mother was crying yesterday ..as they are help less now ..dont know when god is going to bless us ....
i m so tiredd now .....pls dear pls keep me in yr prayers ...i dont know but it seems that my case is so hopeless ..only god can do miracle in my life ..if possible then pls pray for me n my family ..we are so disturbed ...
once again thankss for ur prayers and love ..i really appreciate it ..u r the best person i have ever met ..i pray lord that he will bless u n kelly a very happy n healthy life
lovee u
nimmi
For Those Suffering From Depression
Dear Lord,
For all the times in our lives when things DO seem right,
when we have that moment of clarity
when we feel there is hope, when the sun shines down upon us
and warms our face and reminds us that
life IS a gift... we thank you Lord.
Amen
dear bkbrig ..thankss for ur sweet advice ..and thankss for yr sweet blessings ..i believe in prayers and i know god hear our prayers ...i too pray for u , kelly n ofcourse our sweet friend neenyu ..may god bless all of u soon ..u r always in my prayers and thoughts ...i love u dearly bkbrig as u hav a golden heart ..thankss so much for bening my friend i wish i could meet u n give u a bigggggggg huggg ...
pls keep me in ur prayers my sweet frind as i really need prayers
lovee n hugss
nimmi
HI Bir,
How are you?
I am doing fine.
No more hacker,I have my myspace back! yay
So,
How is everything with neenu,mohana?
I hope the best for them,and you! =D
I would hope you write a response to my request soon, i can't wait to hear from you keep in touch~April