Family

A group of people related by ancestry or marriage; relatives, all those claiming descent from a common ancestor; and also those who are to form bondage, stick together no matter what circumstance arise is the true definition of family.
Family is indeed important, especially in today’s perilous conditions. In society, now more than ever we should continuously pray for family members whether they are correct or incorrect, negative or positive, truthful or deceiving and love them no matter what.
It appears to me and I am quite sure to several others that the devil is prevalent at continuously corrupting those who attempt to walk the straight path but seems to veer towards the left and right and once again seeking the straight path. We all have family members who text continuously, forwards about Gods grace and mercy, and their Myspace pages are filled with a believers quotes and on Christ but yet they remain filled with Satan because the word of God is only sent because at the bottom it states forward to ten individuals to anticipate “good blessing” and your page speaks of God because you are at an attempt to cover your negative persona.
But my issues with family arise when we seem unable to tend to self but yet let others business and issues worry us. Family members point fingers, but they fail to realize that when you point, you only have one pointing at the individual to whom you are “referencing to” and didn’t realize that three others are pointing at you. So the moral is, to tend to self first, because as humans we can all use construction and the main point is that if we deal with every issue that needs attention, we want have the time to sit around and wonder why family is grown, has graduated from college, I’m sure makes a replicable salary and yet still resides at home; or how my family friend has relocated, has already lost both mother and father and how will she maintain; or my family member who has also lost both mother and father, dealing with legal issues and what’s the possibility of her remaining as full substance. Family members also speculate on: my cousin’s father is incarcerated will her mom be able to salvage all that they own or will she loose it all. The thing about these type family members is that they are like the old saying: empty wagons rattle and make the most noise. They are empty. They proclaim happiness but they are far from joy. They are so dependent on friends and family and what they fail to realize is that if they would let go of half of their bitterness and grudge fullness the sun just might began shining any day now!!! Letting go of others characteristics and flaws would enable you on being able to pay expenses within a household on your own verses going half with someone. Letting go becomes significant when you stop dreaming and wishing on what it is that you want others to do for you or how your able to swindle them out of something when if you believe within yourself and cease degrading of others you could possibly clear the path to do such for yourself.
Family members such as this love to see you suffer, but hate to see you maintaining and going beyond what they’ve ever imagined accomplishing. These family members dwell on the negatives. They worry about things that are far from their concern; like and aunt, or an uncle, better yet a cousin who has married and seem far worse when joining into matrimony verses when unmarried. These individuals worry on how another relative has married and their spouse has become unemployed and wonders how they will succeed. These individuals are miserable in their own company and skin. Again what they fail to realize once more is that being attentive to self could have saved a marriage before it came to the break of divorce; it could restore your health no matter what the doctor’s revelation of the outcome appears to be. Letting go can open up far more doors than the ones that have closed behind you. Gain a little confidence and see that prosperity is just a corner away!!! I have relatives who will stop by my page to read and possibly comment on this blog/ bulletin post who have completed college now, when they once told me years back that “we” never amount to anything; we don’t go to college and better ourselves; yet read above and see where I stated that they have attended and completed college but will have problems with relaying as to what the meaning of some of the small words are that I’ve written. So to you, when your focusing on me; go pick up a dictionary and broaden your vocabulary and too better yourself; quit being so oppositional and cease the thoughts of receiving mediocrity.
Don’t slander me because I reneged once on visiting a relative out of town and was unable to stop by. Find peace within and hope for he best for “yourself”. Don’t become jealous because a relatives marriage has lasted longer than yours when the days were months apart; you don’t know what they’ve gone through to make it last. Don’t become vindictive because a relative has conceived and is ecstatic about the bundle of joy to come. Don’t settle for another’s mate; seek God for your own. Continue to construct self and all else will fall into place. Cease the worry on why I’m employed for two different employers, find out how you can get another one if you don’t have so, to purchase the items that your heart so desires. Go to a local bookstore and grab a copy of “Your Best Life Now; 7 Steps to Living Better at Your Full Potential” by Joel Osteen. I’m positive that it will be a for sure eye opener. Seek the bible when you feel the need to focus on someone else and I’m sure that you will have covered the first testament in no time.
Remember that we are sowing now preparing to reap… So, spread well if that’s what you plan to harvest.