I know my sister is at a loss as to why our brother is unable to open up to his family and tell us how he is feeling.
We only know that he has leave from his job for several months now, and his explanation to us ( on health grounds) just doesn't feel right somehow.
He is a great brother and always there for anyone else who becomes ill. Yet we are now feeling so frustrated because it is hard to know how to reach him at a time when we could perhaps support and comfort him! He is private in himself and if he were to just call us tomorrow to talk properly about what is going on we would be quite startled, for the contrast this would be!
When we love someone and cannot get close to offer help, what is there to do? To confront him with a straight question won't work, we know that. It seems so much more difficult to relate to our own family members the older we get, a bit of a puzzle! Unfortunately, he is not in contact much with his brother either. Brothers stand strongest when they stand together surely.
I am seeking some answers for both my sister and I to come to terms with this concern we share and to find a way forward so we can feel a family connection once again, as our beloved parents would have dearly wanted.
It must be God's direction that has set this prayer in my heart and to let it go as I am doing now.
My heart shall be gladdened beyond measure if it is God's will that this prayer be answered.
Glory be to the Father and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit, as it was in the beginning, is now, and will be for all eternity.Amen

Dear one in Ireland, I am praying for you, your brother and your family. I am now in my early 50's and this year after more than twenty years have reconnected with many of my relatives. It's funny what can do to our priorities. My words don't always flow the way I would like them to, but they are straight from my heart to all of you. May God Grace Your brother with opening and sharing a little of himself.
Bighill
Lord, may "Givetothelight"'s brother be touched and transformed by the Holy Spirit. May his heart and soul overflow with Divine Love. Lord, may something either "in there" or "out" touch his soul and open it up wide to receive Thy Grace. May Your heavenly guardians guide him and watch over him. May the need to be closed and private gently slip away and allow the Light in. Through Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit I earnestly pray. Amen.