Oh you are so sweet! I love that name Vashti..so beautiful..I know what you mean about letting go of hurt..let me tell you I have learned a hard hard lesson on this..I have spent days..weeks..okay months...lol..pouting about all the hurt and unjustice I believed the man I love was putting on me..every crying out to God..asking the Lord..why are you letting this man hurt me like this...well...the other day I was reading something and off the page..jumped a paragraph about how WE..the wounded..are in sin ..by sitting around constantly rehashing..the hurt..thinking about the hurt..being hurt by the hurt..etc...why? Cause we have to be like Jesus...who was hurt on this earth more than the Lord? and did he sit around complaining to GOd about it..holding grudges..being angry..nope..I want to be like Christ..I have to be like Christ..I can't let satan keep me bound up in sin by having me focus so much on all the wrong done to me by man..man doesn't know anybetter..men make mistakes and hurt and do wrong..we have to rise above that and not let satan take us down with them..let it go...I am working hard to do that and once I started..the veil was lifted off my eyes..I can look at my man with love and an open heart..something I could not do before..when I looked at him and all I saw was this mean person doing me wrong..God will take care of the wrong doers..we just have to take care to not let ourselves become one too! God bless you Vashti! You know that God has our back in all we do!
Blessings..

Karla