Tanya, I know very well the pain you are going thru to be pushed away by the person you love and you married. Give him time that he has requested, I know it is painful but during the time pray to God to talk to you and give you answers and directions. God is talking to you right now maybe you are not listening, be patient. In the meantime pray and please be calm. God can see your pain, be calm and talk to God, He is listening. God Almighty please give Tanya the peace in her heart and soul. Amen

May the Lord help you and lead this man back to you and on the right path. God Bless

Dear Tanya,
what if God intervened already by seperating you from further harm? After so many hurtful things have happened your higher self and the Holy Spirit has guided you to do probably the wisest you could do. This doesnt heal the pain the very next time. But if you as couple would have been able to handle the loss of your baby in any nonharmful way things would have never escalated that far. With Liz you can be at total ease, it will never work out. To leave Grant for HOME was the wisest you could do, somehow even Grants higher self urged you to leave so that no further harm could be done to you. Both of your souls have no other chance than to work it out on your very own way in a quest of your soul to find out who you truly are, not as a couple right now anymore, but each of you yourself. The outcome? Guided by for example the Holy Spirit.May be you can forgive each other and leave the past wounds behind for a truer, deeper love. May be your love for Grant dies, or his love for you, nobody could tell you that because that depends on so incredibly many factors and its absolutely no time for answers yet and Grants higher self told you that explicitely with at least needing 6 months time. This has nothing to do with wishing you to leave, translated to a higher self language it means: Sorry Tanya, have no idea at all where I stand right now, no idea at all, cant help it, but I must find it out. Sorry for all the hurts, but I dont want to hurt you further, so please leave me, since I cant promise anything at all for a long time right now and it would be totally dishonest from me to tell you something else. All I can do right now is to let you go, though one part of mine is deeply crying with every step you move, another part absolutely owes you the protection to let you go, to not bind your soul to mine so that you can have your own life, your own experiences and have a chance to find out who you truly are without me. Sorry for hurting you so much but it was nobodies fault and the Baby or Liz were just triggering far deeper questions for which I have absolutely no answers yet.
Good luck Sweet and all the best to you, I am very sad and one part of mine will always love you for the time we had but now -after all that happened- I MUST let you go, because I have no right to further hurt you and to bind your soul to mine in a time where I have no idea, no answers for who I am. Thanks for the time, Sweet, sorry for the wounds, some part of mine will always miss and love you, but enough: Good bye and Good luck Sweet, take care. Thats about Tanya - in very short words -what Grants higher self tells you in its nonviolating language and you intuitively understood it and left him. And I would recommend you to stay away at least for some months after Grant totally finished his affair but you cant count on anything else but you, your new "unwanted" life at home and over the time the Holy Spirit guiding you, as no outcome is predictable and only time will tell.....My very best wishes in this time of grief, pain and doubt, its no time for any answers now , its only time for resting and "licking your wounds" to allow them to heal, sad story for the next time but only both of you together will be able to speak the final words about your relationship, Gods bless and healing on all your further ways, Tanya, gentle hugs,Marcus