God please help me to understand why my son has chosen the paths he has. Chad has always been such a wonderful son. He is twenty now and has been the ideal child. He met his now girlfriend who is 19 in Jan of this year and he fell hard and fast. He informed me in Feb that she is HIV positive. He has never had a real girlfriend before and he struggled greatly with this for many reasons. (as have I) he assured me they would never have sex unless they were to marry. I at first told him to be strong and pray about it. Last weekend she broke up with him again and he opened up to me and wanted my advise, I gave it to him . It worked, but I found out she is using him for his money and transportation etc.. I tried to tell him what I knew and he told me he hates me, never wants a relationship with us again and moved into his grandma's (who is an enabler). He has broke my heart, but worse.. I fear he will have unprotected sex with her, just to keep her in his life and in turn risk his own. He is so young and I don't think he realizes that this is not forever. God please watch over him and guide him to make wise decisions. He can hate me forever as long as he is kept safe. Please!