YIPPIE....YEAH.....I AM SO PROUD OF YA MA...LOL..YOU POSTED IT, NOW GIVE IT SOME TIME AND LOTS OF MORE PRAYERS ON YOUR END AS WELL BUT WATCH THE LORD DO HIS WORK !!!! NOW LETS GET DOWN TO IT... IT IS IN OUR NATURE AS HUMAN BEINGS TO BE EMOTIONAL...AND OF COURSE ANYONE WHO LOVED ANOTHER AND CAUGHT THEM IN A SITUATION LIKE THIS WOULD BE ANGRY, SAD AND JUST DEVASTATED..ESPECIALLY SEEING AS HOW YOU SAY THIS ISNT LIKE HIM AND THAT HE HAS NEVER DONE ANYTHING LIKE THIS BEFORE....FIRST OF ALL YOU HAVE TO DECIDE IF YOU LOVE HIM ENOUGH TO WORK THIS OUT...YOU NEED TO FIGURE OUT WHAT YOU WANT...THEN TAKE IT TO GOD AND TRUST ME HE WILL DO THE REST !!!! GIVE IT ALL TO THE LORD....IT IS SO IMPORTANT THAT WE DONT GIVE THE ENEMY A PLACE TO DWELL...AND THIS IS ONE OF THE REASONS OUR WORD TELLS US TO BE SLOW TO ANGER...BECAUSE WE END UP ACTING OUT OF ANGER DOING FOOLISH THINGS THAT WE DO LATER REGRET, RIGHT ??? EVEN THOUGH AT THE TIME IT FEELS GOOD WE REACT AND ACT-OUT WE FEEL JUSTIFIED AND VALIDATED BUT ONLY FOR A MINUTE, BELIEVE ME MA...I USE TO GO THRU THAT ON A WEEKLY BASIS..AND I STILL FIGHT THE URGE TO REACT TO NEGATIVITY....BUT DENY THE ENEMY...GIVE THIS TO GOD AND GIVE HIM THE GLORY. AGAIN OUR EMOTIONS ARENT "BAD" ITS OUR REACTION TO OUR EMOTIONS....SO MAYBE YOU TWO SHOULD TAKE A DAY OR TWO AND SPEND SOME TIME ALONE/ APART SO THAT YOU CAN BOTH THINK AND CALM DOWN AND EVALUATE WHETHER OR NOT THIS IS SALVAGABLE. DONT LET THE ENEMY WIN.....YOU LET YOUR ANGER GET THE BEST OF YOU AND THEN THAT TONGUE STARTS IN AND WE KNOW HOW MUCH TROUBLE THE TONGUE CAN GET US IN, THEN IT ALL ESCALATES AND SPREADS OUT OF CONTROL LIKE A WILDFIRE !!!! LORD PLEASE WATCH OVER DREAMER....FILL HER WITH PEACE...INTERCEDE IN HER SITUATION....GIVE HER THE STRENGTH TO MAKE BETTER DECISIONS CONCERNING HER RELATIONSHIP...OPEN HER SPIRITUAL EYES AND EARS TO YOU AND YOUR WILL LORD. GRANT HER WISDOM AND COURAGE AS YOU MANUVER HER THROUGH THIS STORM IN JESUS NAME I PRAY, AMEN. IM GIVING YOU MY LAST CANDLE MA CUZ I LOVE YA....FIND OUT WHAT YOU WANT...GET PAST THE ANGER LONG ENOUGH TO FIND OUT WHAT YOU WANT, THEN TAKE IT TO THE LORD AND LEAVE IT AT HIS FEET, AND HE WILL WORK IT OUT, BUT YOU HAVE GOT TO STAND ON IS WORD/PROMISE....IT WONT BE EASYBUT IT IS WORTH IT, TRUST IN HIM...TRIALS AND OBSTACLES LIKE THESE HAPPEN FOR A REASON WE DONT UNDERSTAND IT OR SEE IT IN THE NATURAL MOST OF THE TIME BUT IT IS APART OF HIS PLAN FOR YOU....ADVERSITY HELPS US TO GROW, IT BUILDS CHARACTER AS THEY SAY...LOL..THIS STORM WILL HELP YOU UPGRADE YOUR FAITH IN HIM. GOD BLESS YOU DREAMER....YOU HAVE TRIED IT YOUR WAY AND IT HASNT WORKED SO NOW GIVE HIM A TRY ???? LUV YA--KE