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dredd384
dredd384 Cordova, TN

Heartbroken

Please help me work out this relationship with Bob, he is the most wonderful man I have ever met, a really good man. I met him almost 2 months ago. I really didn't know if I liked him when I met him because he came on so strong, he was just out of a 30 year marriage and had been separated for 4 years. He met me and was head over heels for me. I was so thrown back I told him after 3 dates that I thought he might need to date around a little because I wasn't sure I was interested in him, but after getting to know him and thinking about it, I saw one of the best men I had ever known. A truly good man that would treat me with respect and that I could truly fall madly in love with. But just when I was getting those feelings he told me that because I had told him to date other women he had been casually dating and had not wanted to date any one else but me and didn't see it coming but thought he needed to see if it was going to work out with her. I am so crushed I can't see. This is the man I have always prayed about to be brought into my life and I can't believe I couldn't see that when I had the chance. I don't want to lose him, but I don't know what else to do. I have told him how I feel and he said if things don't work out he would like to know that we might have a chance but he feels that he needs to see if this will work out. He is truly a good man and I pray that God will see the will for me to have a second chance with him. Please pray that I get a second chance with this man, he is the best thing that ever happened to me and I just didn't see that when I first met him, I have never had a man treat me so good in my life. I would give anything to have a second chance with him. I have not cried this much in a long time.

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Update - 4 months ago:

July 18th, it has been a week now since I have talked to Bob and I miss him so bad. I would give anything to hear from him, but I know the best thing to do is to leave it alone and see what happens. But my heart is so heavy with despair, I am so scared I have lost him forever. Please keep praying for me. This is truly the man I have always dreamed about, just wish I had seen that when he walked into my life. A truly good man.

Update - 3 months ago:

It is two weeks today since I heard from Bob. I still have hopes that my prayers are heard and that I still will have a chance with him. That with time he will give me another chance. Pleas keep praying for me.

Update - 3 months ago:

It has been 3 weeks since I have heard from Bob. I so miss him. Please keep praying I hear from him soon. I am so scared that as the days grow longer with no word from him, the more likely I won't hear from him again. So please keep praying for me!

Update - 3 months ago:

I am missing Bob so bad, I sent him a simple email that said "I miss you" I so hope that wasn't a mistake. Please pray this goes over well with him and it makes a difference. I want to hear from him so bad.

Update - 3 months ago:

I haven't heard from Bob, which makes me so sad, and I am not going to lose my faith yet, and I am going to keep praying. I live to check this box that says prayer answered! so please keep praying for me!

Update - 3 months ago:

Today makes 4 weeks since I last spoke to Bob, it seems like forever. Please keep praying for me.

Update - 3 months ago:

I still have faith that I will eventually hear from Bob again, I just feel it in my heart.

Update - 3 months ago:

It is 5 weeks now that I have heard from Bob, but waiting patiently knowing that with all your prayers I will hear from him soon. Thanks for all the prayers and support I know he will be back soon.

Update - 2 months ago:

6 weeks, but I feel it is just getting closer for me to see Bob again soon! keep praying!

Update - 2 months ago:

7 weeks, Still keeping my faith that with prayer I will get my second chance again one day.

Update - 2 months ago:

I have been on several dates since I last saw Bob, but all of these men have not even come close to treating me half as nice as Bob treated me. I just pray I get a second chance at seeing Bob again. I know I will always regret losing him.

Update - about 1 month ago:

I haven't heard from Bob, but I have met a wonderful man that I think God has sent into my life. His name is Sam, he is a really nice man. I thank God for answering my prayers even though it wasn't Bob, he did send me a wonderful man. Just pray that God will Bless our relationship as we get to know each other.

Update - about 1 month ago:

I am having some doubts about Sam, please pray for this relationship, that this is one that God has brought into my life. I don't want another disappointment. Please pray this relationship will work out for me.

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spjerry
spjerry philadelphia,pa

Dear Lord, I pray for this heartbroken Sister keeps here patience and understands that God Loves her and has A plan for her life.I pray she finds someone who is A good Man of the Lord and shows her the Love that she needs in her life, in Jesus name, Amen.
There are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you A future and A hope" (Jeremiah 29:11)

bakkis
bakkis india

dont fear GOD is with u and me also.........,
there is nothing impossible forGOD.
GOD BLESS U AND UR FAMILY.

starrysky876
starrysky876 TN/FL USA

Lord, Jesus - I want to lift up these prayer requests of your daughter. Father, she is seeking companionship with a man You have in store for her & I ask that You would give her the patience & peace to stand still and wait for You. During that time, may she stay in Your word & develop a deeper relationship with You. I ask that You would keep her safe, heal her heart & comfort her in her time of need. May she keep her eyes fixed on You, knowing You do work all things out for our good. We love You - in Jesus' Name - Amen!

dredd384 - about 1 month ago: thank you so much
RedRoses

Lord hear the concerns of my sister. Bless this relationship. Hear her hearts desires and answer them. In Jesus' name I pray
Thank you for praying for me. I am moving mountains. Keep praying for me.

penelope04
penelope04 Philippines

Hi,sis. I understand your point. But this is what I can say - well, first I am not a relationship expert, obviously since I'm still single at 36. Haha. So, I can't say much. But basing from my experiences, doubts and negative thoughts don't contribute at all to a loving relationship. I learned this the hard and hurtful way. My last relationship ended 2 months back and I'm sure that my fears and doubts contributed to its ending. He's a great guy but I had issues with fears and negative thoughts. These past few weeks, I've realized my mistakes and since then, I have devoted myself to feeling good, thinking positive and loving my life everyday. I'm telling you, reading spiritual books have helped me immensely. Anyway, I realized nobody can really tell if a relationship will be for good but you can tell yourself that you should feel good no matter what the circumstances. I guess, what I'm saying is don't worry and just leave all those thoughts you're having to the Almighty. And if your doubts are correct, again leave it to the Lord to take care of everything. I have noticed, He answers your prayers all the time. So keep that in mind. =) Have a blessed day!

calibra
calibra scotland

Hi Heartbroken, You are a beautiful lady both inside and out, I think God is giving you choices, don't rush, chill out and use the free will that was gifted to us. Remember, when 1 door shuts, another 1 opens. Use your freewill and God will provide you with never ending love!! If it don't feel right to you, move on, God is providing you with a selection, only you can decide what fits best - God provides for us all, go with your your heart, it only knows real love. Love and soulhugs - alan

somaiah
somaiah hyd

praise the lord sister&brother god tell in bible victory in the life .................'''' those who win the victory will be clothed like this in white,and i will not remove their names from the book of the living . in the presence of my father and of his angles i will declare openly that they belong to me . ''''''(REVELATION 3:5 )AMEN . GOD ISWITH U AMEN

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dredd384 - about 1 month ago: Thank you so much
penelope04
penelope04 Philippines

You are very much welcome, sister in Christ. God bless you and your new partner/relationship. I think this is a prayer answered.

dredd384 - about 1 month ago: thank you
Dunnam0127
Dunnam0127 Stonewall ,Ms

I'll pray for you . I know when you search for love and you wait for the one to come along also I recommend these books :10 Commandments of Dating , The Five Love Languages and The Five Apologies , and John and Diana Hagee's book "What Every Woman Wants In A Man". This is Joseph Dunnam from MySpace Dunnam0127.

dredd384 - about 1 month ago: thank you so much
calibra
calibra scotland

Lord, Bless this relationship you have given to our sister, make it blossom into something truly beautiful as only you can. Amen

dredd384 - about 1 month ago: thank you so much
penelope04
penelope04 Philippines

I am so happy for you. God indeed answers prayers. In your case, He did not give you what you asked, He just gave you someone better. I pray for your happines. God bless you!

dredd384 - about 1 month ago: thank you so much
RedRoses

Lord bless my sister. Hear her prayers for this relationship. Put your hands on them and bring them love, happiness, joy, strength and comfort. In Jesus' name I pray

dredd384 - about 1 month ago: thank you so much
somaiah
somaiah hyd

LORD GIVING IN BIBLE ''''''LISTEN! I STAND AT THE DOOR AND KNOCK ; IF ANY ONE HEARS Y VOICE AND OPENS THE DOOR , I WILL COME INTO HIS HOUSE AND EAT WITH HIM , AND HE WILL EAT WITH ME .'''''''( REVELATION 3:20)AMEN

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dredd384 - about 1 month ago: thank you so much
somaiah
somaiah hyd

praise the lord sister &brother . lord given in bible '''' God is coming again from Edom ; the holy god is coming from the hills of paran. his splendour covers the heavens; and the earth is full of his praise .(HABAKKUK 3:3)amen lord is with u amen

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Cupcake_Wonderbread
Cupcake_Wonderbread New Mexico

It's so great to hear how god's working in your life, you don't know how encouraging it is for me during this funky transition in my life. I am finally releasing Kandice to god and getting up every morning for myself and god. To tell the truth I don't even want to contemplate being with a girl right now, I just need time to bounce back from the bad relationship but at the same time i feel god is leading me into another potentially harmful relationship w/ another girl. My heart couldn't stand that at this time so i have been heavily praying that god surrounds me and closes my heart to my emotions for now, just till i have some time to heal. I'm just not rdy right now to start another relationship. but anyways, its great to hear that god is performing miracles in your life, it is helping me to maintain my faith and keep my head up.

dredd384 - about 1 month ago: thank you so much