my 4 year relationship ended 4months ago with a woman who was abused as a child, she could never accept that this effected her as an adult and inturn put me through emotional abuse herself, it was unconsiouse in her and i know she was only dealing with own anxiety, she turned nasty toward me pushing me out of her life blaming me for all that was wrong in our relationship and our lives. i have seen a counseler and understand why she has acted like this, this really is true love, im the only person who has never walked away from her and have tried to help her but she dosent want to know. we spoke for the first time in 2months last nite and she is going to see a counsellor yet says her feelings have changed toward me. i pray every night for got to help her and i know deep down she does love me, i pray that god helps her love shine through and helps her to stop running away. please pray with me.
Yes I was abused as well. The pain runs so deep. Its like being stabbed over and over again with no mercy. I've pushed away a lot of people. But what I always wanted was one person to just stick it out with me. Because if they stick by me during the toughest time in my life, of getting over the pain, then I know they loved me. So my advice is stand by her and let her know that you'll always be their for her, whether she allows you to be their for her as a friend or a boyfriend. Because eventually the relationship will evolve in what its truely suppose to be.
Im praying for you and your relationship to your love ones. True love is there, i know how hard you are facing now. But understand her as long as you can. You are the only one can do that for her. Im praying to our Dear Lord that he will touch her heart and give peace of mind. God bless you.
Lord we bring before this situation and I ask that you intervene. I ask for your healing touch and restoration that will bring about a fresh love between this couple. I ask in the precious name of Jesus, Amen