Only God knows that there is so much to ask for. I feel like I am missing the right question, and prayer.

My 2 teenage daughters are going through a rebellious stage. Normal, I suppose, but the fighting, lying, swearing, disrespect that I get is not. They laugh or mock at the idea of going to church and many times at the sound of hearing God, Jesus or Holy Spirit. They treat the house like it is a 5 room garbage can and refuse to help. The messes are unimaginable....they are selfish, non-caring, even to the point that when our beloved cat disappeared, they didn't even search. The attitude was, "Good, one less job to do." A year ago they would have both bawled, searched, made posters...everything. My oldest who is just 15 was conned by a 20 year old (While she was 14) into dating him. We have no idea what they have done together (In that area) My 13 year old was demanded to cover for her and was beaten up when the truth came out. She (13) has an enormous problem with swearing and attacking us. All of us. Mocking everything.
And I have a 7 year old, who is as sweet as can be, but is beginning to pick up these behaviors too. I suppose I should pray for restoration of our family...For peace? For peace in their spirits, so they can be confident in who they are....and to grow in the truth of our Lord....I don't know ....I have tried everything. I am missing something. I just want the girls to feel secure, safe, and behave somewhat normally. To feel sympathy, not apathy, to love, not be cold....I don't know. And my husband whom used to love the Lord and make certain we were at church every Sunday, even he is different. He buys them alcohol and cigarettes, and says it's better than them going to the streets to get them.....a year ago, he would have lost it on anyone who would have done this.

Now he hasn't gone to church in almost 6 years except Easter...and to light candles. He swears now...he didn't before, he spoils the girls, and sides with them....saying, it's ok, they're kids, they'll grow out of it.....but this stuff, like the trash (literal throwing their wrappers, pencil shavings, food, forks, etc...clothes all over the floor throughout the entire house....this is not normal....) I can't do it all alone.....and the depression I fight daily is intense. Over what? I sometimes laugh at it as it seems so ridiculous....but it isn't. It is a nasty reality having my hard works, efforts, love, concerns squashed. And I find it hard to feel love anymore. I have so much inside me....and to show it to the older 2 is such a struggle. I have to fake it when I give it, and when it is genuine, they spit all over it....it really hurts. It is their souls that concern me....maybe I am just a nut....but I can't take it any more, no matter how hard I try to carry on. Thanks for your prayers in advance, they mean a lot to me!